God does not accept any abuse

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HOW YOU EVER NOTICE NOW HOW THE FUNDAMENTALIST,  EVANGELICALS, BAPTISTS AND MANY OTHERS DO LOVE TO BASH CATHOLICS, OTHER DENOMINATIONS, PENTECOSTAL WHILE THEY THEMSELVES ARE HIDING MAJOR SINS IN THEIR OWN GROUPS SUCH AS ALCOHOLICS, ADULTERERS, THIEVES.
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God does not at all not allow, accept any human rights, verbal and physical abuses and neither should we.. And Exemplary public exposure of the Bullies, abusers, the bad, guilty persons serves everyone’s best interest next too. God undeniably himself does not show false partiality . God still Shouts the abuses, sins truth from the housetops..
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Let me tell you we do not have to accept human rights abuse that is a lie of the devil.. in this world we have the same rights as the bully even the right to see that a bully is punished for abusing us.. God is not ignorant about the injustices inflicted upon his people, nor does he accept any of our human rights abuses without punishing the abusers shortly.. see the Bible book of Esther if you have doubts..
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Est 9:25 But when Esther came before the king, he commanded by letters that his wicked device, which he devised against the Jews, should return upon his own head, and that he and his sons should be hanged on the gallows.
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These Abusers are often really deceived persons falsely believing they alone have the right to speak and to be heard.. they are generally the unacceptable bullies as well now.. all unacceptable always, still.. God himself does not tolerate, all such abuses. The right of free speech is never a right to lie about others, to bully them, to slander them, to put them down..

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The WRONGFULLY STILL Unrepentant bully’s problem is that he or she is one of those bad persons who only feels truly alive when voicing hostility and contempt for his “enemies.” Without that, he or she starts gasping for air. It’s his nature.. self-destructive” .. clearly these immoral Bully, Basher of others, Abusers of others has a disappointed, deflated ego, negative self worth, most likely related to past unresolved guilt, as a result of that the bully, he or she, tries falsely to build their ego up by bashing, hating others, by being an antagonists against his proclaimed enemies, which too often also is most people , for he or she no longer trust anyone, and Abusers this is a common very typical approach, fact in the character build up of Bullies, Bashers, but their approach is futile, the subsequent feeling of self worth dissipates too quickly, are actually replaced by guilt, and his ego, self worth likely needs to be recharged with new hate.. and is replaced with more and larger hatred of the others.

(Prov 14:12 KJV) There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

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Beware always of men and women, bullies, tormentors, control freaks, false putdown, negative persons, false Prophets, false pastors, leaders, elders, who falsely do, will try to enslave you, oppress you, exploit you even while they claim they are proclaiming the truth, democracy, trying to help you, etc.,

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Is 51:23 ..your tormentors {and} oppressors, those who said to you, Bow down, that we may ride {or} tread over you; and you have made your back like the ground and like the street for them to pass over

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(Mat 7:16 KJV) Ye shall know them by their fruits.

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Now a Southern Baptist leader had suggested abused women should ‘be submissive’ instead of getting a divorce, Controversial comments about women, abuse and divorce made by respected leaders in the Southern Baptist Convention have put many of its leaders in deep uncomfortable position.Those comments, which had set off a wave of criticism within Southern Baptist circles over the message it sent to women. Such episodes aren’t surprises to women who have recounted their own experiences in the Southern Baptist Convention. “Anyone who would say that a woman has to stay in a violent or abusive relationship because it honors God is wrong,”
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Abuse something we all often encounter and do not know how to deal with it? Well do not hesitate to call the police, the news media and report it.. Everyone  needs to set boundaries on what is acceptable behavior. No verbal abuses, no bullying, no lying, no foul languages, no hitting or other violence should be allowed.

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Hate and Verbal abuse unrestrained often next do lead to physical abuse. Hate, Verbal or physical  abuse is always unacceptable too. So are the Bullies now too … I have learned a long time ago that public exposure and prosecution of the abusers serves everyone’s best interests.
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“Many women have experienced horrific abuses within the power structures of our Christian world,” Beth Moore. The Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary fired Paige Patterson, he 75-year-old president of Fort Worth’s Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, which claims to be one of the largest schools of its kind in the world. Also Andy Savage resigned as a teaching pastor at Highpoint Church, a nondenominational congregation after he acknowledged that he had been involved in an inappropriate “sexual incident” with an underage high school student as a youth minister at a large Southern Baptist church near Houston. On any given Sunday, there are more women than men who attend church. These women, in communities across America, may think twice before pulling into a Southern Baptist church’s parking lot. Southern Baptists now find themselves in a situation that is perilous. Too many Southern Baptists say Patterson’s comments reflect larger attitudes about women within the seminary and the denomination’s circles,
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New Orleans pastor and seminary professor John Gibson struggled with a sexual addiction, depression and the shame of having been exposed as a user of the infidelity Web site Ashley Madison.
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Les Hughey founder of a popular megachurch in Arizona admits having sex with girls in his charge when he was a married youth pastor at a prominent Modesto church
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“Brad Tebbutt, who like Hughey was a youth pastor at Modesto’s First Baptist Church sexually abused a girl from age 14 to 17,
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The larger problem of sexual abuse in evangelical circles. Much of the sexual abuse that takes place in Independent Fundamentalist Baptist churches involves adult men targeting 14- to 16-year-old girls. Former IFB megachurch pastor Jack Schaap argued that he should be released from prison after being convicted of molesting a 16-year-old girl.
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There’s no shortage of such stories.Women raised in evangelicalism and fundamentalism have for years discussed the normalization of child sexual abuse. We’ve told our stories on social media and on our blogs and various online platforms, but until the Moore story broke, mainstream American society barely paid attention. Everyone assumed this was an isolated, fringe issue. It isn’t.
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(Jer 5:7 KJV) How shall I pardon thee for this? thy children have forsaken me, and sworn by them that are no gods: when I had fed them to the full, they then committed adultery, and assembled themselves by troops in the harlots’ houses.
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(Jer 7:9 KJV) Will ye steal, murder, and commit adultery, and swear falsely, and burn incense unto Baal, and walk after other gods whom ye know not;
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(Jer 23:14 KJV) I have seen also in the prophets of Jerusalem an horrible thing: they commit adultery, and walk in lies: they strengthen also the hands of evildoers, that none doth return from his wickedness: they are all of them unto me as Sodom, and the inhabitants thereof as Gomorrah.
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AND EVEN CHRISTIAN MEN HAVE ALSO BEEN ABUSED BY SO CALLED CHRISTIAN WIFE.  LETS NOT PRETEND TO BE DUMB AND DENY THAT MANY OF THE DIVORCING SPOUSES EVEN PROFESSING CHRISTIAN ONES AND THEIR LAWYERS, SUPPORTERS THEY DO FIRSTLY LIE EVEN IN WRITING TO THE COURTS TOO.. THEY DO COMMIT PERJURY TO THE COURTS IN DIVORCE DISPUTES, AND TOO OFTEN WASTE THE COURT’S TIME AND TAX PAYER’S MONEY CAUSE BASICALLY THEY ARE ALL STILL PROSTITUTES, THEY PROVIDE THEIR SERVICES FOR THE MONEY . DIVORCE MOSTLY IS CAUSED BY THE FALSE LOVE FOR MORE MONEY, SELFISHNESS, UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS, LAZINESS, UNFORGIVENESS OR UNCONTROLLED SEXUAL LUST
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Without a doubt, many fingers that get pointed at belong to the people who are truthful. it is very hard to determine who is telling the truth with the salacious false stories, gossip, misinformation and lies about his personal life . So there’s often a big problem in sorting out the truthful accusers from the lying accusers who lie because of a profit motive. sexual lusts, melding; in-laws. The spouse she may look refined, but she can get very vicious when angry, she is a gold-digging fantasist, a blackmailer. a liar. She makes False claims that don’t have time stamps and have been doctored. The estranged wife is ‘making up’ false claims of domestic abuse in order to boost her divorce settlement. It is not unusual for the divorce perpetrator’s playbook to include miscasting the victim as the sole villain.’ As she was leaving him she had threatened to ‘lie about him publicly if he didn’t agree to her terms, over a clash over parental rights spiced by the in-laws, her parents’ “desperate desire” for her and the children to move near them, so that they the children can have a closer relationship with their maternal grandparents,” The “affluent” in-laws are “bankrolling” her litigation so that they could enjoy easier access to the grandchildren. The spouse was also fighting over the preservation of hidden assets and stolen heirlooms. she is thus accused of cooking up the abuse story to influence a judge’s decision on spousal support
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Imagine this even in a so called Christian Church a lazy, no good, rebellious, actually a slut, adulterous, unfaithful wife OFTEN STILL now files for a divorce, and still demands alimony but she also often even gets her church support in this matter claiming the Bible says the husband is to be the sole bread winner and too look after his wife. Well I got GOOD news for you all FOR there is no such verse in the Bible and the same PERVERTED church that says so, let them now support the wife next.. for the Bible is clear a wife is an equal marriage partner, who now also works even supporting her family .. (Prov 31:10 KJV) Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies…. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
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Proverbs 14:1 New International Version The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.
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A Common Loser’s Strategy is asking to Look at me! Notice me. See who I am! Pay attention to me. I am great! I AM THE GREATEST! Worship me, Praise me. Losers worship the false god of self.
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Decide you’re going to stay married, no matter what. Literally When a woman first seriously considers divorce she usually isn’t thinking about the theological implications of her desires – all she knows is that she is desperate wants to get more from her husband. She doesn’t arrive at this state of desperation by a process of calm deduction. Most husbands have few memories of “hurting” their wives and do not give it any thought. The truth is that a hardened woman only got that way because she was elf centred, selfish. Most women leave their husbands, because they entered marriage with false expectations Such a wife will be consumed by bitterness. she should realize the negative impact of her bad decisions will have, on her children or others . Her heart is too far hardened, and will not now respond to words of Truth. She falsely blames him for her bitterness.
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Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate. (Matthew 19:6) Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery. (Mark 10:11-12) If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. (1 Corinthians 7:12-13) https://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2009/01/02/divorce-and-remarriage-in-the-christian-church/
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ONE OF THE MOST COMMON, POPULAR TOPICS, SEARCHES ON THE INTERNET is can a Christian next get divorced and remarried, and the simple answer is no! but wait do not stop reading yet.. if you are married, living to a demon, a control freak, a liar, a lazy good for nothing abusive person then please now do immediately get out of the marriage, do get an immediate separation.. and this not the kind of advice you would expect from a preacher of peace and love, but I am telling you all this for our own good, and you can thank me later.. and maybe next the still good for nothing bum, lousy spouse, he or she will wake up as to what she is really like and they may try to get help to change herself, himself.. but meanwhile don’t feel guilty about the peace you now have in your life.. By the way make sure first you are not the creepy, a good for nothing spouse yourself otherwise by your actions you will be doing your own spouse a great, great service

Isaiah 1
18 Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

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Isaiah 59
2 But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.

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Jeremiah 5
25 Your iniquities have turned away these things, and your sins have withholden good things from you.

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Numbers 32
23 But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out.

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DO NOT LIKE MY FREE SPEECH.. TOO BAD BASHING CATHOLICS IS OK? BUT TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT BAPTISTS IS NOT EHH.

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History is quite simply full of the activity of passive-aggresive persons and control freaks. These Abusers are often really deceived persons falsely believing they alone have the right to speak and to be heard.. they are generally the unacceptable bullies as well now.. all unacceptable always, still.. God himself does not tolerate, all such abuses

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I clearly do believe in the right of everyone to speak, to speak out as well, and to be equally heard by all, so we can all judge what has been said if it is appropriate and we can next corresponding act upon it, even in the church, in the government, on the internet now too. Clearly some people falsely DO DISALLOW THIS RIGHT… the bad persons especially as even I know this for sure. They respond with a personal attack, inquisition, censorship, lies, slanders, diversions, distortions, instead of facing, dealing with the facts, truths being presented. Confirming to many what they still are really like, immoral, abusive bullies.

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When one express an opinion, view one can automatically expect contradictions, opposition to it, such as real life, You get used to it..

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Now we all do really have freedom of religion, freedom of choice, freedom of speech, the right to be heard now as well..

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While in reality God has made us all equal, and GAVE US ALL MOUTHS WE CAN SPEAK WITH, EARS TO LISTEN, it seems some people, in churches, on the net, elsewhere, they still wrongfully do think they are better than others, or want to dominate others, do try to give orders to others, do try to make rules for others that they too often themselves do not follow too, they are in fact still bullies.. and now why is that? and who do they think they are now that they are so special? Mere fools. They mostly have a hidden agenda, they are falsely seeking fame, power, control, a position of prestige, for they are immoral slave drivers trying to walk on the back of others…Too many persons now they are trying to change others when they firstly do need to be changed..

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Free speech too often seems to be expected as only is a right mainly for the rich, the bad guys, crooks, not the decent folks. I also do I know that bad guys and gals such as the crooked cops, crooked pastors, crooked politicians, crooked anyone do not like me to use my right of free speech.. but too bad for them..

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Now we all do really have freedom of religion, freedom of choice, freedom of speech, the right to be heard now as well.. The Exemplary Public exposure and prosecution of the unrepentant guilty CONTROL FREAKS, BULLIES also now serves everyone’s best interest

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TOO ANY MENTALLY SICK people have their own false images, scenarios, and refuse to see the truth of what is going on and in denial to the truth, these people they next even do falsely say anything, lies, slander included.. these people are the ones who need help. It is a COMMON fact of life, particularly among the young, inexperienced, really bad persons who really hate the truth or they cannot handle serious , heavy negative realities that false denial, ostrich approach is a serious part of their make up, and their related defense protection when they now cannot discredit the facts, the make a false personal attack on the writer, persons instead.I can readily recognize bad control freaks on the net cause they want to give me advice how to write my post, what to write, in fact they want to rather write it for me.. rather fools is what they really are.. I freely can speak for myself, write for myself now too. You readily find these freaks also in churches, homes, etc., demonic enslavers is what they rather are too now. Not much point in being nice to them for often they are too dumb to understand who they really are too often too… and they rarely change.

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Mat 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. 7 Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh! 8 Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire. 9 And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire. 10 Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That

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Not surprisingly many prideful people try to take the place of God in my life too, AND these imposters claim even that they have been chosen, designated by God to command over me, THAT I am required into forced submission to their whims, desires , commands. But funny God now himself has not revealed those facts as well to me BUT only to them. I put my trust in God and not in man.. Biblical repentance is admitting one sins to God, stopping and consciously turning away from them, turning back toward God, and personally accepting Jesus Christ finished work, forgiveness for them.

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As a University graduate , a professional I have always had subordinate working for me, and no… on ever ordered me around, told me what I can and what I cannot do, even my superiors as  it was always suggested merely.  So I have to say I was really surprised  that when I left the working Milieu I found now too many  bullies, false people , slave drivers meddling in my personal  life, even ordering, telling me what I should do, what I should write and what I cannot do, what I cannot write  Even in the churches.

And who in the hell do they really think they are now to do so? I am a free man, my freedom was paid by the lord Jesus Christ and I am accountable now, next still only to him.. So I merely rightfully tell these persons to drop dead, to take my posts or leaven them too..

And about the abuse of Children

Most people think of adult rape as a crime of great proportion and significance, and are unaware that children are victimized at a much higher rate than adults.

Those who molest children look and act just like everyone else. There are people who have or will sexually abuse children in churches, schools and youth sports leagues. Abusers can be neighbors, friends and family members. People who sexually abuse children can be found in families, schools, churches, recreation centers, youth sports leagues, and any other place children gather. Abusers often form relationships with potential victims and their families prior to the abuse. This is called “grooming.” Not everyone who sexually abuses children is a pedophile.

Child sexual abuse in Europe, America, and Asia had prevalence rate of 9.2%, 10.1%, and 23.9%, respectively. Child sexual abuse cases are notoriously difficult to investigate, and less than 10% of cases are prosecuted.

I have to say I was surprised, dismayed to be also informed about the number of that school employees have presented a serious risk to children in their care a very high e number of school employees sexually offending children. The School employees were not alone in this, it included both male and female educational assistants, student teachers, lunch monitors, volunteers, secretaries, custodians and school bus drivers.“The frequency of such abuses are certainly occurring more than one would expect. All of this clearly demonstrates the need for enhanced efforts to protect children in schools. elsewhere too. Public exposure and full prosecution of the guilty serves everyone’s best interest

Child sexual abuse is far more prevalent than most people realize.

Child sexual abuse is likely the most prevalent health problem children face with the most serious array of consequences.

About one in 10 children will be sexually abused before their 18th birthday*.

About one in seven girls and one in 25 boys will be sexually abused before they turn 18*.

This year, there will be about 400,000* babies born in the U.S. that will become victims of child sexual abuseunless we do something to stop it.

Only about 38% of child victims disclose the fact that they have been sexually abused. Some never disclose it

*Includes contact abuse only
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Child sexual abuse includes a range of behaviors, from obvious contact offenses, to less obvious non-contact offenses which include exposing a child to sexually explicit material, voyeurism, luring a child online for a sexual purpose, and inviting a child to sexually touch themselves or someone else. Children can experience trauma from both contact and non-contact sexual offenses

https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/all_statistics_20150619.pdf

Read also

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/11/i-am-a-slave-to-no-man/

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2012/06/01/christians-pretenders-who-hold-to-the-saturday-sabbath/

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2011/11/19/how-do-you-recognize-if-a-person-is-a-true-christian-or-what-is-a-christian/

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/05/17/abused-how-much-abuse-is-acceptable-none/

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Unprofessionalism. And how often does it go on now too with others?

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“I had made a serious mistake.. as I had posted on the net that I had a great dentist Dr. Nadia Michael at LE DENTISTE in Ville La Salle and now she has no time to even see me?

I had been going to this my favorite Dentist at least the last decade..   Dr Nadia Michel   -Academic: Doctor of Dental Medecine , Graduated from:  Université Laval ,  Experience: General practitioner since 1998 ,   Member of l´Ordre des dentistes du Québec ,of the Association des chirurgiens dentistes du Québec and of the Société dentaire de la Vallée du Richelieu.
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Recently they LE DENTISTE in Ville La Salle  had expanded in size, doubled in fact, and there was now evidently even  more competition  amongst the associate staff.   
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Now I had just lost a filling in one of my teeth and so I called and asked to make an appointment with my regular, favorite dentist. I was next told that she had gone for a whole Month’s vacation, and they suggested another dentist 2  days later.
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Turns out this was now even a big  lie, as my regular dentist was not on vacation for a month, a fact I had easily discovered when I got to the dentist office..
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It seems the appointment receptionist that day was rather falsely sheep stealing, passing on client’s to her own favorite dentist unknowingly  behind my own old dentist  Dr Nadia Michael’s  back. 
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The new replacement dentist next was even  rude, clearly a  con artist. The replacement dentist she  immediately  told me that she could not provide me her full  services that day, she would have to provide a temporary filling, and I had to take it or leave it, and she instead I had also to agree to her  whole tooth treatment before she even would install the temp  filling.  So I agreed. She installed the temporary filling which even next fell out a few hours later anyway..
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The replacement dentist  next gave me a large estimate for the costs of fixing that one tooth.  I told her I would wait for my old own regular dentist to come back from vacation and she would do it for me .
But that is when I found out my own dentist had really not been on Vacation
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So I complained even there to the present receptionist staff about how I had been treated, about  all this deception, ruse, bad service, bad dental treatment, very , immoral.
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and I awaited an appointment next  with my good dentist who is supposedly going to call me back? but the other receptions still did claim she is booked now for the next 2 months.
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So what is the real truth here too now?
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Now this is not the first time in my life had encountered an  unscrupulous dentist, at least 5 times before this in 2 different provinces even? . And how often does it go on  now too with others?
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Ps The replacement filling that I had paid for had anyway shortly had also fallen out.. not that is really bad service too. http://www.ledentiste.com/eng/ “
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I finally a few days later got a call from my great  dentist  Dr. Nadia Michael who made an appointment to fix my filling ASAP. She  Dr. Nadia Michael was unaware of what was happening as she insists that her old customers can always contact her for emergency services and she fixed the filling at 1/10 of the price quoted to me before by the bad new dentist. Now that is decent service..
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Now I wish my new Optometrist was  just as great    https://postedat.wordpress.com/2013/06/20/le-lunetier-3189-rue-masson-montreal-quebec-h1y-1y2-telephone-514-522-3680/ they seem only interest in  making a buck quickly to.
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I have this habit

  
(Psalm 119:141 KJV)  I am small and despised: yet do not I forget thy precepts.
 
 
(Psalm 118:8 KJV)  It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.
 
(Psalm 118:9 KJV)  It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in princes.

I do seem have this habit where I do ASSAY  or  test people to see if they do practice what they preach to me.. their mere words mean nothing to me..  especially those people who claim that God has called them to do a specific work..  but yet they now cannot seem to find any love personally for me and why was  that ?  Did Jesus not say that now by  their own fruits you can tell what they are.. and  the fruit of the spirit includes  their love for me..

(John 15:4 KJV)  Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.
 
(Gal 5:22 KJV)  But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
 
(Eph 5:9 KJV)  (For the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness and righteousness and truth;)
 
(James 3:18 KJV)  And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
 

I have thus notice that when one of these rather control freaks pastor, or relatives does tells me that he is busy serving God, also that he or she is more spiritual than I am too,  so  that when he or she asks me to do something for him and her and I next do refuse to do so i do rather see as to how very quickly they do now do openly hate me, do bad mouth me, do slander me, do divorce me.. for obviously n ow rather their calling, goals are not being motivated by God but rather by the devil and self.. and so I do  wish they could see what they were realy like ..

do see also https://postedat.wordpress.com/2011/03/12/%e2%80%9cwe%e2%80%99re-here-to-help-contact-us-%e2%80%9d/

 
 

AND WHEN YOU DO NOT DO WHAT THEY WANT YOU TO DO THESE SAME RATHER LITTLE BAD CHILDREN INSULT YOU, SLANDER YOU, DIVORCE YOU, OSTRICIZE YOU, BAD MOUTH YOU.  https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/11/i-am-a-slave-to-no-man/

                    

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Oppressors or Bullies are always unacceptable

 
 
It has been amazing to me that, as I look back into my own life, half of the oppressions I have witnessed in my life, and any oppression  all of it tends to be an unacceptable human rights abuse  now too,  all oppressions are still unacceptable ,   these oppressions now came from the least expected places, from the Bullies within  the church , even from bad pastors, bad elders, bad deacons, and also  within my related control freaked or  despotic family members, all now proving to me that many of these professing Christians persons were still not real Christians in fact. The other half of the oppressions, and all of it too was unacceptable, came from     the attempted silencers,demonic led persons too,  fellow employees, bad contacts, acquaintances, neighbour, civil and public servants, cops, RCMP.
 
The WRONGFULLY STILL Unrepentant bully’s problem is that he or she is one of those bad persons who only feels truly alive when voicing hostility and contempt for his “enemies.” Without that, he or she starts gasping for air. It’s his nature.. self-destructive” .. clearly these immoral Bully, Basher of others, Abusers of others has a disappointed, deflated ego, negative self worth, most likely related to past unresolved guilt, as a result of that the bully, he or she, tries falsely to build their ego up by bashing, hating others, by being an antagonists against his proclaimed enemies, which too often also is most people , for he or she no longer trust anyone, and Abusers this is a common very typical approach, fact in the character build up of Bullies, Bashers, but their approach is futile, the subsequent feeling of self worth dissipates too quickly, are actually replaced by guilt, and his ego, self worth likely needs to be recharged with new hate.. and is replaced with more and larger hatred of the others. http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2009/07/21/hated/
  
(Exo 3:9 KJV)  Now therefore, behold, the cry of the children of Israel is come unto me: and I have also seen the oppression wherewith the Egyptians oppress them.
(Deu 26:7 KJV)  And when we cried unto the LORD God of our fathers, the LORD heard our voice, and looked on our affliction, and our labour, and our oppression:
(Judg 2:18 KJV)  And when the LORD raised them up judges, then the LORD was with the judge, and delivered them out of the hand of their enemies all the days of the judge: for it repented the LORD because of their groanings by reason of them that oppressed them and vexed them.
 (2 Ki 13:4 KJV)  And Jehoahaz besought the LORD, and the LORD hearkened unto him: for he saw the oppression of Israel, because the king of Syria oppressed them.
(2 Ki 13:22 KJV)  But Hazael king of Syria oppressed Israel all the days of Jehoahaz.
(Job 36:15 KJV)  He delivereth the poor in his affliction, and openeth their ears in oppression.
(Psa 9:9 KJV)  The LORD also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble.
(Psa 10:18 KJV)  To judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that the man of the earth may no more oppress.
(Psa 12:5 KJV)  For the oppression of the poor, for the sighing of the needy, now will I arise, saith the LORD; I will set him in safety from him that puffeth at him.
(Psa 42:9 KJV)  I will say unto God my rock, Why hast thou forgotten me? why go I mourning because of the oppression of the enemy?
(Psa 43:2 KJV)  For thou art the God of my strength: why dost thou cast me off? why go I mourning because of the oppression of the enemy?
(Psa 44:24 KJV)  Wherefore hidest thou thy face, and forgettest our affliction and our oppression?
(Psa 55:3 KJV)  Because of the voice of the enemy, because of the oppression of the wicked: for they cast iniquity upon me, and in wrath they hate me.
(Psa 62:10 KJV)  Trust not in oppression, and become not vain in robbery: if riches increase, set not your heart upon them.
(Psa 72:4 KJV)  He shall judge the poor of the people, he shall save the children of the needy, and shall break in pieces the oppressor.
(Psa 73:8 KJV)  They are corrupt, and speak wickedly concerning oppression: they speak loftily.
(Psa 103:6 KJV)  The LORD executeth righteousness and judgment for all that are oppressed.
 
(Acts 10:38 KJV)  How God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power: who went about doing good, and healing all that were oppressed of the devil; for God was with him.
For the record, I hate bullies. All kinds. Whether they are school yard, high school, workplace, cyber (internet) and yes, I have a special place for hell for those religious bullies.
 For the record both religious and non religious bullies have the same source of inspiration, the devil.. Bully Cain Killed Abel because he was of the evil one.
 
***By the way juast as true and IMPORTANT IS THAT the Divorcing spouse who will not let her spouse visit or acess their  children is also a bully, she is a control freak who herself firstly needs to be helped. *****
SOME PEOPLE ESPECIALY THE UNREPENTANT ONES THEY STILL REALLY DO HATE TO HEAR, READ THE TRUTH FOR IT RIGHTFULLY MAKES THEM FEEL SHAMED, DISGUSTED WITH THEMSELVES, THE STILL BAD  PASTORS, BAD COPS, BAD MALE AND FEMALE SPOUSES  ESPECIALLY..  THEY ARE IN OSTRICH DENIAL..
Hey I expect to be hated for telling the truth here too, most people hate to hear the truth about themselves, for they are in denial, such as the bad wife bashing her husband who still cannot see she firstly likley is doing the things she accuses him of doing in reality https://postedat.wordpress.com/2009/08/31/get-real-now/ 
Can people now still next  change on their own for the Better, very unlikely without  God’s direct input. Most people have to learn the realy hard way.
DO SEE
 

Canada Likley too often Banned Political cartoons

Law and order priorities emphasis in Canada is too often a mere perversity, a police job creation empire it seems.. not a real concern about valid justice.

No such thing as a little bit pregnant – Abortion

 
 
While 70 percent of all persons tend to be decent persons, 30 percent do still need to be kept in jail at all times in reality, the big liars, thieves, murderers, abortionists and it is so easy to draw the line of division now as well.. Any one who too readily abuses someone else, children, and likley seniors, cats, dogs next too.. anyone! The Quebec government openly supports abortion, but it also already supports killing seniors, even your mother and father.
 

The Canadian Institute for Health Information released its report  finding 44 per cent of seniors in residential care have symptoms of depression. http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/cbc/100520/canada/science_depression_seniors   and if you had read my blogs  http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/ on the actual  care of seniors in Quebec this year  I had said the same thing even that depression counseling is not being provided  in Hospitals or old age homes not even by the Quebec social services.

 Since I clearly, openly do not write to win political or any popularity support I know you will also  find some shocking truths in my expose of Canadian Life in reality even how the immoral, cheap  Quebec government wrongfully  allows elderly patients to die by not force feeding them or providing them any depression counseling too.

Abused! How much abuse is acceptable? None!

God does not at all not allow, accept any human rights, verbal and physical abuses and neither should we.

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Let me tell you we do not have to accept human rights abuse that is a lie of the devil.. in this world we have the same rights as the bully even the right to see that a bully is punished for abusing us.. God is not ignorant about the injustices inflicted upon his people, nor does he accept any of our human rights abuses without punishing the abusers shortly.. see the Bible book of Esther if you have doubts..
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Est 9:25 But when Esther came before the king, he commanded by letters that his wicked device, which he devised against the Jews, should return upon his own head, and that he and his sons should be hanged on the gallows.

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Name calling: no one has a right to call you degrading names. Name calling is verbal abuse. If you counter the abuser or attempt to explain yourself, you will probably be met with such statements as, your nut, you are crazy, drop dead, get lost, spoken like a true fool!

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WHEN SOMEONE TRIES TO SAY TO YOU SOMETHING LIKE YOU ARE CRAZY THEY TEND TO BE SPEAKING OF THEMSELVES, ARE CONSCIOUS FIRSTLY WHAT THEY THEMSELVES ARE LIKE LIKELY.

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These Abusers are often really deceived persons falsely believing they alone have the right to speak and to be heard.. they are generally the unacceptable bullies as well now.. all unacceptable always, still.. God himself does not tolerate, all such abuses. The right of free speech is never a right to lie about others, to bully them, to slander them, to put them down..

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The WRONGFULLY STILL Unrepentant bully’s problem is that he or she is one of those bad persons who only feels truly alive when voicing hostility and contempt for his “enemies.” Without that, he or she starts gasping for air. It’s his nature.. self-destructive” .. clearly these immoral Bully, Basher of others, Abusers of others has a disappointed, deflated ego, negative self worth, most likely related to past unresolved guilt, as a result of that the bully, he or she, tries falsely to build their ego up by bashing, hating others, by being an antagonists against his proclaimed enemies, which too often also is most people , for he or she no longer trust anyone, and Abusers this is a common very typical approach, fact in the character build up of Bullies, Bashers, but their approach is futile, the subsequent feeling of self worth dissipates too quickly, are actually replaced by guilt, and his ego, self worth likely needs to be recharged with new hate.. and is replaced with more and larger hatred of the others.

(Prov 14:12 KJV) There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

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Beware always of men and women, bullies, tormentors, control freaks, false putdown, negative persons, false Prophets, false pastors, leaders, elders, who falsely do, will try to enslave you, oppress you, exploit you even while they claim they are proclaiming the truth, democracy, trying to help you, etc.,

Is 51:23 ..your tormentors {and} oppressors, those who said to you, Bow down, that we may ride {or} tread over you; and you have made your back like the ground and like the street for them to pass over

(Mat 7:16 KJV) Ye shall know them by their fruits.

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Abuse something we all often encounter and do not know how to deal with it? Well do not hesitate to call the police, the news media and report it..   http://mccainvrsobama.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/verbal-physical-mental-abuses-are-all-unacceptable-still-also/

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Recently in a five month period I had almost daily encounter with geriatric hospitals and old age homes and I was shocked NOW OFTEN to find out that there were poor, pretentious, inadequate hospitals and bad old age homes, in contrast with the well managed, kind, decent, effective, good  hospitals and good old age homes, and I started to wonder why there was such a glaring, vast difference.. and of course “money the root of all evil” had come into the pictures, for those managers who were more concerned about making more money, getting a raise, PROMOTION, advancement,  now also  too readily allowed the patients to be wrongfully abused!   http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/07/07/controlfreaks

If you are being abused do not hesitate ASAP to call the police, human rights courts, news media. http://anyonecare.wordpress.com/2011/10/17/no-abuse-is-acceptable-zero-tolerance/

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Now unrestrained verbal abuse always leads to physical abuse next.. but none of that deals with the reasons for this abuse still even,  still the best deterrent to the abuse always is it’s public exposure, pleasant or not.. being kind to an evil person still is often a waste of time.,, the older they are the more hardship they personally do  need to experience to change too… and these words are not lightly written..

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Many people do have a false priority, they  love money and what it can buy, but it does not buy happiness or salvation even.. People who work solely to make money are already out of whack,, unbalanced as there is more to life than just having or making money.. Jesus himself said the love of money is the root of all evil.  Making More money should not be anyone’s priority..

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For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Tim 6:10 KJV) 

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Most of us will retire and many of us will find ourselves eventually in an old age home, a hospital for seniors, and we will unavoidably encounter real abuses. Get ready for it, deal with it now before it will be too late! Why and how do the abuse of any seniors for example start? Here is the reality, any unrestrained abuses tends to escalate, verbal abuses always also tend to lead to real  unacceptable physical abuses.

A TOO TYPICAL  INEXPERIENCED, UNQUALIFIED  CONVALESCENT HOME WORKER  GIVES A COMMAND  IN A LOUD VOICE TO A PATIENT.  THE PATIENT IN THE CONVALESCENT HOME SCREAMS OUT NEXT “DO NOT GIVE ME ORDERS, I LIVE IN CANADA I DO NOT HAVE TO TAKE ORDERS FROM ANYONE”. VERY SHORTLY THE EPISODE ESCALATES TO A SCREAMING MATCH BETWEEN THE 2 PERSONS, WITH THE PATIENT NEXT ALSO SAYING “I HATE YOU, I HATE THE WAY YOU MISTREAT ME”. NEXT THE SAME WORKER THREATENS EVEN PHYSICAL RESTRAINTS, REAL PHYSICAL HARM TO THE PATIENT IN RESPONSE.

INSTEAD OF SAYING ORIGINALLY TO THE PATIENT, “HONEY DEAR WILL YOU COME FOR LUNCH NOW?”

The uncompassionate, unloving worker had wrongfully ordered the patients and had said “Go to lunch, you have to go to lunch now!”

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And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing. (1 Cor 13:3 KJV)

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And who are these abusers? why is is that they so readily abuse others now too? They tend to be persons who have their own value system, and clearly also a lack of love for others, and a lack of love for their jobs now as well.

For he hath said, It profited a man nothing that he should delight himself with God.  (Job 34:9 KJV)

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Sadly many people, likely 50 percent now, do  take a job not cause they love their work, so it is not surprising that they also do not have a love for others associated with the work now too, but they take the job basically for the money.. and we SADLY TOO OFTEN STILL DO encounter many Nurses, Doctors, hospital and old  age home workers now like this as well.

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2010/05/06/thenonconformer%e2%80%99s-canadian-blog/

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2010/04/05/canadas-rapidly-increasing-aging-seniors/

In case you did not notice it I do not accept any physical, verbal, mental, human rights abuses by anyone of anyone and I rightfully do instead demand their full, open exposure and public prosecution now as well and  no matter who they are, Prime Minister, Premier, MP, MNA, MLA, MPP, Doctors, lawyers, cops, pastors, etc..

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The Canadian Institute for Health Information released its report  finding 44 per cent of seniors in residential care have symptoms of depression. http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/cbc/100520/canada/science_depression_seniors   and if you had read my blogs  http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/ on the actual  care of seniors in Quebec this year  where I had said the same thing even that depression counseling is not being provided  in Hospitals or old age homes not even by the Quebec social services.
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I personally in Montreal Quebec now  have the last 4 months dealt directly with the Quebec social service workers, in regard to even my elderly senior father and real workers in you cannot call them that at all, try useless functionaries, fraud artists, incompetents, pretenders.. Since I clearly, openly do not write to win political or any popularity support I know you will also  find some shocking truths in my expose of Canadian Life in reality even how the immoral, cheap  Quebec government wrongfully  allows elderly patients to die by not force feeding them or providing them any depression counseling.
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Matt 32:29 You shall love your neighbour as yourself.. and that means you will do him no harm now too. 
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 Abused. One of my most often written about subject on the net.. even whether it is verbal, mental, physical abuses now too.. ironically some of the people claiming that someone else has been abusing them has been the major abuser themselves and that is why they are so conscious of the other persons supposedly abusing them.. another case of one’s need in dealing with the beam in one’s eye over the toothpick in the other persons eye.. often notice the opposition political party accusing the governing party of abuse when they now also have done the same thing ?
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One of the thing that has caught me by surprised were the proposed solutions for the abuse.. some were really unacceptable, such as accepting the abusers and merely forgiving them when God himself does not.. anyone doubt this, look at God’s Punishment of the Apostle Paul specially for his past abuse of the Christians now too.
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Acts 19 10 And there was a certain disciple at Damascus, named Ananias; and to him said the Lord in a vision, Ananias. And he said, Behold, I am here, Lord. 11 And the Lord said unto him, Arise, and go into the street which is called Straight, and enquire in the house of Judas for one called Saul, of Tarsus: for, behold, he prayeth, 12 And hath seen in a vision a man named Ananias coming in, and putting his hand on him, that he might receive his sight. 13 Then Ananias answered, Lord, I have heard by many of this man, how much evil he hath done to thy saints at Jerusalem: 14 And here he hath authority from the chief priests to bind all that call on thy name. 15 But the Lord said unto him, Go thy way: for he is a chosen vessel unto me, to bear my name before the Gentiles, and kings, and the children of Israel: 16 For I will shew him how great things he must suffer for my name’s sake.

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I  also do know from observing others that anyone’s abusing a Christian can lead to one’s early death. I have found the best way not to get abused anymore is to rightfully not to associate with the abuser anymore, after exposing their abuse to them and others, till they really do repent of it, and a clearly Biblical approach according to the Bible  Book of Corinthians now too. They cannot hit you, abuse you if you are not there. As simple as that

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Did you know that sibling rivalry, abuse is one of the most common forms of family violence? Siblings will use physical violence because they have learned it from their parents, a bad mother or a bad father,  or other adults. In fact, one study found that 76% of the children who were repeatedly abused by their parents also abused their siblings.. and their spouse next too
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Everyone  needs to set boundaries on what is acceptable behavior. No verbal abuses, no bullying, no lying, no foul languages, no hitting or other violence should be allowed. Another step parents can take to prevent abuse between siblings is to model their own respectful behavior in your family. Children learn how to interact with others by observing them.

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/12/26/young-offenders/

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Hate and Verbal abuse unrestrained often next do lead to physical abuse. Hate, Verbal or physical  abuse is always unacceptable too. So are the Bullies now too … I have learned a long time ago that public exposure and prosecution of the abusers serves everyone’s best interests, http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/07/21/hidden-agendas/
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see also
 

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https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/18/she-was-selfish-self-absorbed-self-centered/

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/08/the-still-unrepentant-wicked-persons/

http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/verbal-abuse-is-always-unacceptable-too/

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They are not going to heaven..

 

A too typically It still seems a pair of professing self righteous Christians had made a chance encounter  with a Pentecostal Pastor on the street, and instead of praising the Lord together , enjoying the benefits of their Christian heritage,  this  Christian pair started immediately to deliberately mock  the Pentecostal pastor for his beliefs, and started to dispute   their doctrinal differences with him,  and it all made me to wonder where was their real love? So where was their real practice of brotherly love and Christian Hospitality? for it did not exist in their case, and so how could they now even profess to be Christians as well?
 
 (John 15:19 KJV)  If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.
 
(John 15:23 KJV)  He that hateth me hateth my Father also.
 
(1 John 2:9 KJV)  He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now.
 
(1 John 2:11 KJV)  But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes.
 
(1 John 3:15 KJV)  Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him.
 
(1 John 4:20 KJV)  If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
 
(1 Tim 5:8 KJV)  But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
 
I have been shocked too often when I go to Liberal Christian churches to see manifestations of open Rivalry, Jealous, Bitterness, and even hatred amongst the attendees, even in the same family now too and it makes me think why these same people now wrongfully do think they will even make it, are going to heaven next..
 
Here is something else I cannot understand how this can happen. I know a professing Christian father who will feed the other kids, and he will give money to help his own brothers and sisters but he now still will not give money support his own children.. or is he really by this act not supporting his wife that he rather hates? or was he basically still only a typical self centered person?
 
(Mat 7:15 KJV)  Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. 16  Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? 17  Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. 18  A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. 19  Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. 20  Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. 21  Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. 22  Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? 23  And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity. 24  Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock: 25  And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock. 26  And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand: 27  And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.
 
The devil, demons and demon seduced professing Christian persons falsely, wrongfully take false delight in slandering, abusing, bashing others, even the Pentecostal Christians and show the sad truth that they do not have any  real love for others. Net posters like Walter, Polycarp, BWT, others included now. One Cyber bully was unaware that in my blogs I can note the posters IP address and other details.. and he used over 4 different names of both genders too, to post lies about me, to attack me, turned out he was an insecure,  bad, jealous relative of mine even.
 
One thing for sure I have observed that where there are sheep now there are also many wolves, for where there are real Christians there are also the  the pretenders amongst them now, today as well. The pretender, imposter, wolf in sheep clothing do now show up for all kind of reasons even to seduce the sheep. They masquerade as pastors,, assistant pastors, elders, youth ministers, Bible college students now as well.
 
But a close examination daily reveals these pretender, imposter, wolf in sheep clothing really have not changed, they are self centered, unloving, tend to lack compassion and consideration for any others.

AT TIMES even the Internet blogosphere lives up to its billing as the new frontier of FREEDOM OF SPEECH, religious and political discourse. But too often the blogs mainly still turn into an open sewer of rumors, lies, libels and adolescent sins. Bullies and Cyber Bullies like to tell the lie that slander, libel, bullying is an acceptable free right of expression of the internet  cause they are liars like the devil their father.. it never is..  Slandering, lying about, calling a specific person false names, personal attacks,  even on any public forum is still unacceptable now even if you are a Christian, a Plymouth Brethren one now too.  https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/09/25/lies-slander-personal-defamation-on-the-net-be-warned/

(Mat 5:22 KJV)  But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.

(Mat 18:6 KJV) But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.

(Mat 18:7 KJV) Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh!

 “Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offenses contrary to the  doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus  Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the  simple.” -Romans 16:17-18 KJV           https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/09/19/dispensationalists-it-seems-to-compensate-for-their-often-rejections/
 
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2009/07/20/restoration/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/10/11/wolves-in-sheep-clothing-on-the-net-too-still/
http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2009/02/06/the-boogeyman-called-false-tongues/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2009/01/30/bullies-thugs-proud-oppressors-war-mongers/
http://anyonecare.wordpress.com/2008/06/16/am-i-therefore-become-your-enemy/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/01/25/for-without-are-dogs-and-sorcerers-and/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/09/09/the-pentecostal-movement/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2009/07/20/those-crazy-charismatics-or-pentecostals/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/09/09/betrayers-of-jesus-christ/
http://witnessed.wordpress.com/2008/09/09/the-ungodly-religious-wars-amongst-professing-christians-even/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/18/she-was-selfish-self-absorbed-self-centered/
http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/verbal-abuse-is-always-unacceptable-too/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/07/21/the-pretender-imposter-wolf-in-sheep-clothing/
http://witnessed.wordpress.com/2008/08/24/thou-considerest-not-the-beam-that-is-in-thine-own-eye/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/07/25/too-often-false-bash-of-pentacostals-healers/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/01/30/religious-bullies/
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/08/the-still-unrepentant-wicked-persons/
http://witnessed.wordpress.com/2008/11/03/as-many-as-are-led-by-the-spirit-of-god/

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/07/07/control-freaks/

Ignorance of the Law is no excuse, not for any criminals now too

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The physical, mental, verbal, medical abuse, or neglect of any person, minors or elders included,  is still a a criminal act  and more criminals would find themselves now next in Jail if more people did know the laws on the subject now as well.
 
Elder abuse is physical or psychological mistreatment, medical neglect, or financial exploitation of the elderly intentional or unintentional. Abuse usually becomes more frequent and severe over time. Any Neglect that results in physical or psychological harm is considered an  abuse.
 
I rightfully readily do demand the prosecution of all abusers guilty of abuses that I witness including   neglect, neglect  is the failure to provide food, medicine, medical care, personal care, or other necessities to an elderly persons or someone else too.
 
Sadly even the Professionals, medical workers, legal guardians even these days too often  found guilty of abusing  the elderly in reality. All emergency medical personnel are required  to resuscitate and stabilize patients until they are brought safely to a hospital as well. All medical personnel, doctors, nurses they must all  must notify their patient of theirs policies, plans, procedures beforehand  as long as the patient is in fully capacity or they have to next deal first with a court appointed guardian. No Doctor, medical personnel, hospital administrator  can make a decision to kill, murder patients still  or take any medical action without the patients prior informed approval, nor can hey neglect the good, essential medical care of the patient in their custody.
 
The law always presumes that an adult eighteen years of age or older is always still capable of handling his/her own affairs. And the only way someone can be a full legal guardian for a person who is eighteen years old or older is to be appointed by the  Queen’s court.  Kinship care providers are common, often composed of non-parent relatives who have become the primary or sole personal care givers for their elderly parents who may be next   unable to care for themselves.  These persons are often older relatives, and particularly sons or daughters. Any one appointing or naming a proxy care giver, guardian does not mean that same persons now  has given up any authority or choice.  As long as the person is able to make decisions, his or her consent is required for medical treatment, regardless of what the patient’s agent or written instructions may say. Proxy changes and additions  are permissible..  The services of a lawyer can be helpful, but a lawyer is not required.
 
A person physically unable to execute an advance directive may provide oral instructions that are reduced to writing by a doctor or another person, acting for the patient.  You still can not force any person to do what he does not want to do if it is an non critical medical issue . So as a matter of law, the medical providers cannot treat an individual against his or her wishes,  including any wishes contained in a directive with the sole exception of directives, proxy   that are contrary  to   the patient’s good, well being or the possible, certainty of their personal medical negative complications. As a matter of law, medical providers can treat an individual against his or her wishes, including wishes contained in a directive or contrary to the decision of the patient’s authorized proxy if their life, health is being endangered but they all can still be held  accountable now for anything they do as well here too. In case of  major disagreement among family members about the essential medical care of a family member in such situations the patients do also risk having medical decisions made contrary to their wishes,   by other persons they would not choose. 
 
All non court appointed health care proxy care givers or non court appointed Guardianship  they can always still be readily verbally revoked by the patient. It is possible to terminate a guardianship and restore an incapacitated person’s rights if he or she regains capacity or has not lost their capacities..
 
Many legal, proxy or court appointed  guardian also, even found guilty of abusing the elderly. So often some one can makes sure that the guardian is acting appropriately on behalf of the incapacitated person. More than two-thirds of the abuse perpetrators are firstly family members, typically adult children, most often those serving as caregivers or guardians.  Federal and provincial governments have enacted legislation addressing domestic or institutional abuse of the elderly. Statutory definitions of elder abuse may include physical abuse, psychological or emotional abuse, sexual abuse, financial exploitation, neglect, abandonment, and physical, health related issues neglect.  And the courts may see elder abuse in a variety of contexts: criminal cases of assault, battery, rape or theft (which may carry enhanced penalties when committed against an older person); civil fraud or conversion matters; personal injury action; guardianship  abuse ; and possible criminal or civil cases regarding poor guardianship,  financial exploitation or inadequate institutional care Sadly as we all do know power can often go to one heads, as well as being vulnerable to temptations, abuses,  especially when persons are appointed as Proxy Kinship care givers, or court appointed Guardians.
 
The fact of life is that no one is above the law, not even a spouse,  relative, doctor, nurse, corporation, or anyone else for the matter. All persons world wide can still be prosecuted by either the government, governing  boards,  the courts and human rights commission for the abuse of another person, including elderly persons abuse,  their human rights abuses, even thefts from them as well. As simple as that now too.
 
 

She was selfish, self-absorbed, self-centered and depressed

 
I was amazed that so many people next tend to make this one also one of my more popular posts.
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A Common  Loser’s Strategy is asking to  Look at me! Notice me. See who I am! Pay attention to me.   I am great!  I AM THE GREATEST! Worship me, Praise me. Losers worship the false god of self.
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A Common  Loser’s Strategy is also to Seek Revenge.
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Too often in life I have met too many a proud, perverse, dictatorial manager, administrators, actually slave drivers,  who gets often  upset. do pout that others that do not cower in fear, do not submit in absolute reverence under their feet. They now have set themselves up for severe  disappointment or heartache or failure in their lives. Years later I met some of these same people unemployed, even destitute and broke.. Many of us want to succeed but at what costs, at the false costs of others? For too many persons Power is intoxicating? Some bad persons they now  get a little power and they falsely do think  can be abusive with it.  they  get a little control and thy also get greatly manipulate. they tend to want all things done  their way and they try to manipulate and maneuver others, to get these people to do the things they  want done, for  they are   a bully, just like Haman who used his power falsely to bully the people around him. Dream on they are heading for a rude awakening. Their Bitterness is a wasted life.
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She was merely another typical, common big liar,  selfish, self-absorbed, self-centered and fascinated with her  own ego, and its false agenda, she still was a people manipulator, a control freak, lazy, unrealistic,  an extremist, with her  lies, distorted, false values, who had tried to live her dreams on others. She was impatient, unkind, ruthless, uncaring, immoral  and she still next could not understand why she was so despised, unwanted, unloved too by all others and why she had a low self esteem.  She lost it all, her home, her possessions now too. She had once expected her family, her loved ones, her own special ones to fully look after her, but even they did not want her anymore. She now had ended her life living all alone, in loneliness, with no visitors, friends, to visit her. She has now finally reaped what she had sowed. She had failed to listen to anyone who had warned her that this was what would happen to her next too. Believe me or just now go to the old age homes, see thousands of persons there sitting day and night in a prison chair by the elevator doors with now no one coming to visit them, no one wanting to see them.. and they also now used to think it all  happens only to some one else..  it never would happen to them.. they now reaped a bad whirlwind too.
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(Rev 18:7 KJV)  How much she hath glorified herself, and lived deliciously, so much torment and sorrow give her: for she saith in her heart, I sit a queen, and am no widow, and shall see no sorrow. 8  Therefore shall her plagues come in one day, death, and mourning, and famine; and she shall be utterly burned with fire: for strong is the Lord God who judgeth her.
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FACE IT MOST PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS REAP WHAT THEY SOW INCLUDING DEMONIC DEPRESSIONS
http://kambulow.blogspot.ca/2013/06/the-possession.html
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Reality- Severe Mid Life crisis, depression IS  TOO COMMON TO PEOPLE WHO  NEXT REAP  MANY BAD THINGS CAUSE THEY HAVE BEEN SELF CENTERED, SPOILED, UNKIND..
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This DEPRESSION syndrome is a familiar one. BOTH MEN AND WOMEN AFTER a certain age — and it is not almost always men — do wake up one day and do realize  that they still are no longer the center of the universe and they had not achieved all  MOSTLY FALSE GOALS THAT THEY HAD WANTED  AND FOR THEM IT IS DEPRESSING and they do often go crazy as a direct result too..  FACING THEIR MID LIFE CRISIS. Blaming your spouse for it is a waste of time here too.
http://stayinhealth.wordpress.com/2008/11/21/anti-suicide-watch/
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Others  now fail to look their way, co-workers don’t scurry to fetch them coffee and bosses stop thinking of them a long time ago as someone on the rise. Mommy’s spoiled child rather. Overly self serving, self centered, overly Ambitious. So they consider the alternatives, such as recalibrations, adjustments, or a career changes, clothing style changes,  and/or using their jobs resources even  to attain their still rather unattainable goals, or by developing a new strategy.. but mostly none of it tends to work, it merely continues their self defined fiascos, for their PERSONAL DESIRES,  goals were unrealistic to start of with. So they continue a life of vanity, hubris, malice, even violence, anger, envy, jealousy, rage as well too often, plus their still false  arrogance and conceit.  They next  still hold on to  their false notions. They have their own developed, defined strategies. And to anyone who disagrees, it’s dam-you, for you’re nothing, you’re a nobody, you’re pathetic LOSER. If we do now open our eyes we all can see it in world wide,  over and over, everywhere too.
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Losers making it all worse for themselves because they naively refuse to live with the reality of who they basically are still too.
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In our present modern day world of constant struggle to sustain ourselves economically, it is easy to let stress become predominant, and this in turn, will lead to self centeredness and compromising our own personal moral values firstly. Furthermore deliberate ignorance, stupidity, emotional blackmails. and a false  dogmatism have wrecked havoc on many a human life as well.
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All greatness and all examples of real heroes in life now still  arise from those persons who have held themselves up to a higher standard, ideal then the Kingdom of Self.
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Unless one is healed, from the consequences of one’s on sins, unacceptable acts and goals a person is heading toward often sufferings, ill health and depressing moods. Dysfunctional and addictive behavior, bitter losses, and personal crises next escalate  from not doing enough  to fix things in our lives that have broken  down. They next tend to  succumb before the smallest of obstacles.
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Maybe I knew him too well but what still surprised me was that my father too  was one of the more extreme, unique persons, and he was most self centered, selfish, smug person that I knew, and also he never bothered to try to change himself for the better, for he was happy the way he was, doing his own thing. He solely, always saw everyone else’s faults too but never his own even because he was too lazy to try to make positive changes in his own life.  Sadly many of his too many bad friends were like him now as well.  Still effectively helping to change any others can only come from ones own good personal example, original experience.  Ironically my dad he thought he also was a good person who deserved next to go to heaven, something I completely disagreed with. He died a horrible death, months in painful agony..  I have never seen a person suffer so much..
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The unhealed past can and will cripple you. All of us have been wounded by our interactions with the world, and as these psychic scars accumulate inside our emotional bodies, the more disturbed we become. Over time, they only get worse. Unless a personal effort is made to heal the experiences of hurt, disappointment, rejection, and humiliation from the past, then these persons will continue to have a debilitating effect in our lives. It takes real personal effort to make positive changes in our own life as well. ” Rare is the person who takes time to journal, to walk in nature, or to discuss with others at a deep level what can be done to improve the quality of one own and those of others around them.”
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 “Books and teachers may point the way, but ultimately, they do not light the path to deep understanding, and only make a false impression of learning. True spirituality consists of acts of kindness, moments of wisdom, and feelings of high inspiration from God. When we learn and absorb the lessons of our own life, enjoy genuine warmth in relationship to other people and experience wonder when contemplating the great scheme of all life, then we may awaken to spiritual understanding. All Institutions, no matter how venerable, they cannot make you spiritual.” 
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 In your efforts to improve your life by healing these symptoms of failure, do not look around you for much reinforcement, because most people are in deep denial of their own inadequacies.  http://success.articleberry.com/7-root-causes-of-bitter-failure
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Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as a green herb. Psalm 37:1-2
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(Est 3:5 KJV)  And when Haman saw that Mordecai bowed not, nor did him reverence, then was Haman full of wrath.

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(Est 7:10 KJV)  So they hanged Haman on the gallows that he had prepared for Mordecai.

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(Est 8:1 KJV)  On that day did the king Ahasuerus give the house of Haman the Jews’ enemy unto Esther the queen. And Mordecai came before the king; for Esther had told what he was unto her.

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Everyone should know by now that self worth, self esteem is a direct product of how you see yourself, or how others see you, do treat you but it is also related  directly to what you do.. which can lead to One’s depression.

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Now do nothing at all or do mostly bad things and you will feel guilty, you will have a low self worth.

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Let someone one oppress, abuse you and it can drive you next in reality  to personal insanity now as well.. Recognition of the problem is a major part of the solution here.. In older adults, symptoms of depression may also include signs of dementia like memory problems and confusion, feelings of extreme irritability or anxiety, pacing and fidgeting. Depression can show itself in headaches, back or muscle aches, racing heart rates, stomach or other gastrointestinal upsets, which can be alleviated if the physical symptoms are prevented or managed with treatment. Other health conditions including heart attack, stroke, hip fractures, and macular degeneration are known to be associated with development of depression. Older women are at a greater risk for depression, and women in general are twice as likely as men to become seriously depressed. Depression is not a normal part of aging, it tends to be a consequential aspect of one’s life. Depression often is an untreated sickness.   Undiagnosed and untreated depression often has serious negative personal consequences. First find out if you are personally responsible for your depression and next start doing good things instead like eating properly, stop consuming drugs, alcohol and cigarettes too, try  getting enough sleep, and managing properly your purchases, expenditures, etc. During the winter season, it’s normal to get the “blues” and to feel as if the weight of the world is closing in all around. Part of the “blues” stem from a lack of routine or exercise, little or not enough light, and less interaction with others.  Most people still do possess the ability to bounce back from the blues and start new with a fresh burst of energy.  80 percent of older adults recover from depression after receiving appropriate treatment, actions.or next  find out  if someone really is responsible for it.. and when you do know who that someone is do call the police, do loudly object, oppose all human rights abuses, do now expose that criminal to all.. stop the abuse. Shout the sin from the Housetop.

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One of the real sad fact of real life is those minority group of perverted persons, the people abusers who see others as an object to be used to advance themselves, to make money from or to profit from, and once they see that you are of no use to them they immediately do dump you, do not use you anymore,  and that includes not just many of the business persons, realtors, landlords, news reporters, editors, salesmen, consultants, professionals, neighbors, acquaintances  cops, civil and public servants, pastors, politicians, doctors and  medical staff now as well..

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I usually do refer to them as prostitutes, gigalos,  pimps  or slave drivers. So when these same people next often get depressed, do face major negative setbacks.. my heart now basically does not bleed for them..

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Overcoming depression. Anxiety stress relief vitamins and minerals work in different ways by providing nutrients which control the metabolism rate and the hormone levels within our bodies. By keeping these two things stable we can provide a better mechanism to cope with stress and anxiety inducing situations. Most of the recommended anxiety stress relief vitamins and minerals can be found in the foods that we eat and can simply be attained by eating a healthy and balanced diet covering all the major food groups. And that is why eating proper foods is important. The Elderly persons need more special care cause they do tend to lack  the basic vitamins found in our common foods that help also to reduce one’s personal stress and anxiety.. for a hungry persons tends to be continually stressed and anxious and also do often   manifest  depression as well.. and what the classic treatment for depression is time, healing, by giving them proper nourishment, and proper rest and sleep.. in this case supplemented by proper pain killers, not improper pain killers  and/or merely  given proper sleeping pills too.
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Here is how I do try to help many people. You firstly still cannot help anyone who refuses to admit they want help and is unwilling to receive help firstly. So I patiently wait for them to ask for help. SOME PERSONS SADLY DO  NEED TO GO THROUGH SOME UNBELIEVABLE HARDSHIPS TOO BEFORE THEY ASK FOR HELP.

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Next in love I let them talk, I listen, and I clearly agree with their truths, and I also do in love clearly point out the errors of the past, present ways. I look for the root cause of  their problems, not merely observing their outward symptoms.

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(Prov 22:1 KJV)  A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold.
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(Eccl 7:1 KJV)  A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one’s birth.
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Here is another thing I  do see too often, are the bad people trying to falsely justify holding on to their lies, false values, no good approach to life and their bad friends.. next these very same bad friends do turn upon them, hurt them and the abused now next sing a very different tune about their friends too..
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I get so upset with the sad selfish, self centered ostriches, and bad sheep who try to be politically correct, say to me and you that we are helpless to try to change the facts, nothing will change the facts of life, it is all a waste of time, so stop rocking the boat.. but now next these very very same perverts and when they get abused they loudly do scream murder, do demand I do everything to help them , to make their abuse known and corrected.. what a change when it concerns them and not the others. So one can say anything they want and even believe it.. but when one actually has to face death.. Reality when it comes to dying and facing the Maker, knowing that next you will reap what you sow, i see firsthand many many people begging to stay alive at all costs..
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Face it the single biggest cause of depression basically is your own doings and not just a bad marriage..  over 74 percent of persons complain about their spouses, marriage. But don’t expect any marriage to make you happier over having a personal relationship with God still or the new or old marriage to be a false substitute for having a personal relationship with God.
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I have been recently counseling a person who desperately wants to be remarried, she has been twice married, but she is not interesting in following after God only after her own desires, lusts.. so no marriage for her will make her happy or replace God’s vacuum in her life still too. God has not promised you now even a right of remarriage.. but he promised you peace, joy and happiness and yes you can have that outside of marriage with Jesus..
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Eccl 7:13 KJV)  Consider the work of God: for who can make that straight, which he hath made crooked? 14  In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: God also hath set the one over against the other, to the end that man should find nothing after him. 15  All things have I seen in the days of my vanity: there is a just man that perisheth in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man that prolongeth his life in his wickedness. 16  Be not righteous over much; neither make thyself over wise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself? 17  Be not over much wicked, neither be thou foolish: why shouldest thou die before thy time? 18  It is good that thou shouldest take hold of this; yea, also from this withdraw not thine hand: for he that feareth God shall come forth of them all.
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