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Mat  5:22 KJV) But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother  without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall  say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but  whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.

James 4:1 From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not  hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? :2 Ye lust, and  have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and  war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. 3 Ye ask, and receive not,  because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts. 4 Ye  adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the  world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the  world is the enemy of God. 5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in  vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy? 6 But he giveth  more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth  grace unto the humble. 7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the  devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw  nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye  double minded. 9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be  turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness. 10 Humble yourselves in  the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.

I was really  saddened to note that too many of the abuses I have witnessed were done  by bad , greedy people trying to steal , them trying to get other  people’s money for themselves, stealing the money, or getting it under  false pretenses. The love of more money is still the basis of what many  of the wrong doings is, was all about..

(1 Tim 6:6 KJV) But godliness with contentment is great gain.

(1 Tim 6:17 KJV) Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be  not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God,  who giveth us richly all things to enjoy;

(Psa 37:16 KJV) A  little that a righteous man hath is better than the riches of many  wicked. 17 For the arms of the wicked shall be broken: but the LORD  upholdeth the righteous.

Did you know that sibling rivalry, abuse is one of the most common forms of family violence? Siblings will use physical violence because they have learned it from their parents, a bad mother or a bad father,  or other adults. In fact, one study found that 76% of the children who were repeatedly abused by their parents also abused their siblings.. and their spouse next too

Everyone  needs to set boundaries on what is acceptable behavior. No verbal abuses, no bullying, no lying, no foul languages, no hitting or other violence should be allowed. Another step parents can take to prevent abuse between siblings is to model their own respectful behavior in your family. Children learn how to interact with others by observing them.
 
Do a check-up on your family and others  this week:
     Do you treat your children. others respectfully?
     Do your children treat each other respectfully?
     Are your children hitting each other when conflicts occur?
     Do you have Home, office, internet rules in place for acceptable behavior?
 
You may need to call a family meeting to work out problem-solving strategies before rough housing turns to abuse, unacceptable violence
 
http://unlforfamilies.unl.edu/
 
Info on Sibling rivalry, young offenders, gangs, mafia, war

(Psalm 133:1 KJV)  Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!

Sibling rivalry is a type of sinful, selfish competition or animosity among brothers and sisters, blood-related or not..  the sibling bond is often complicated and is influenced by factors such as parental treatment, birth order, personality, and people and experiences outside the family. Sibling rivalry is particularly intense when children are very close in age and of the same gender, or where one child is intellectually gifted, or one child has received or attains  a bigger inheritance, earning, position, status in life. Adolescents fight for the same reasons younger children fight,  Fighting with siblings as a way to get attention, power  may increase in adolescence. Events even such as a strained marriage may  drive them seriously  apart. Sibling Rivalry in the Bible – sample cases: Cain and Abel, Esau and Jacob, and Joseph and his brothers., Leah and Rachel, and today’s counterpart is the conflicts between the Arabs and the Jews, gangs, Mafia

 
(Prov 15:1 KJV)  A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

What about Bullying?
When any verbal remarks becomes hurtful, unkind to others, and too constant, it now has crossed the line of acceptance, decency and it does needs to stop, to be corrected. Bullying is intentional tormenting in physical, verbal, or psychological ways. It can range from hitting, shoving, name-calling, threats, and mocking to extorting money and one’s possessions. Some persons  bully by shunning others and spreading false rumors about them. Others use email, chat rooms, instant messages, social networking websites, and text messages to taunt others or try hurt their feelings.  It’s important to take bullying seriously for effects can be serious and affect ones’ sense of self-worth and future relationships. In severe cases, bullying has contributed to tragedies, such as school shootings.Why Do some persons Bully? They  bully for a variety of reasons. Sometimes they bully because they need a victim  to try to falsely, selfishly, sinfully   make themselves feel more important, popular, or in control. Often they do bully, torment others because that’s the way they’ve been treated in the past too. They even may think their behavior is normal because they come from families or other settings where everyone regularly gets angry, shouts, or calls others names.

Take it seriously also if you even  hear that the bullying will get worse if the bully finds out that your child has  told others. Many states have bullying laws and policies.   if you have serious concerns about your child’s safety, you may need to contact legal authorities. Do not hesitate to expose it too. Verbal abuse  unstopped, unchecked unrestrained often next turns to physical abuse, wrongful violence.Why Do They even  Hate Each Other? In this society, too many people have the false expectation that they will love others and thus next will get along well with everyone, even in  in their family, Church, community, work. They always expect to feel positive toward their parents, brothers, sisters, spouse and children. This is unrealistic  Most people, themselves however, have at least some times when they don’t feel very loving toward   others. Some persons are even born  really bad, or have become really bad persons now too.

Relationships often can be are close, both emotionally and physically, and thus even very intense.  Because they are   closer at home, communities, church too, the related  members have a greater power than anyone else to make other members feel angry, sad, confused — and loving. This is as true for children and adolescents as it is for adults.

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/12/28/coping-effectively/

Many years ago some one had said that  most marriage problems, divorce are over the issue of money.. some are,  but many marriages break down are due to uncontrolled lusts of the  flesh, and unforgiveness as well.. But I would agree that many problems  amongst so called Christians, including church fights are often over  over money, the control over it, and many professing Christians depart  from the faith over the false lust for more money and what money can buy  for them.

“Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause  divisions and offenses contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned;  and avoid them. For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ,  but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the  hearts of the simple.” -Romans 16:17-18 KJV

God does not at  all not not allow, accept any human rights, verbal and physical abuses  and neither should we.. And Exemplary public exposure of the Bullies,  abusers, the bad, guilty persons serves everyone’s best interest next  too. God undeniably himself does not show false partialities . Shout the  abuses, sins truth from the housetops..

Let me tell you we do  not have to accept human rights abuse that is a lie of the devil.. in  this world we have the same rights as the bully even the right to see  that a bully is punished for abusing us.. God is not ignorant about the  injustices inflicted upon his people, nor does he accept any of our  human rights abuses without punishing the abusers shortly.. see the  Bible book of Esther if you have doubts..

Est 9:25 But when  Esther came before the king, he commanded by letters that his wicked  device, which he devised against the Jews, should return upon his own  head, and that he and his sons should be hanged on the gallows.

Did you know that sibling rivalry, abuse is one of the most common  forms of family violence? Siblings will use physical violence because  they have learned it from their parents, a bad mother or a bad father,  or other adults. In fact, one study found that 76% of the children who  were repeatedly abused by their parents also abused their siblings.. and  their spouse next too http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/12/26/young-offenders/

Any Children of God even who are verbally abused they will next be  also physically abused if the matter is not adequately dealt with  ASAP{.. Abusing others is a common reaction of the carnal flesh and is  brought on by many different reasons such as 1: unfulfilled lusts or 2: a  spoiled child syndrome who tries to get their own way by whatever  method it can 3: sibling rivalry 4: people who have no or little moral  values, respect of others 5: one’s parental influence and upbringing..6:  demon possessed persons, etc. The devil, demons and demon seduced  persons, professing Christian persons falsely, wrongfully take false  delight in slandering, abusing, bashing others and their evident fruits  of hatred alone shows how false they themselves now are too. they  clearly had, do manifest the opposite of the fruit of the Holy Spirit  which is love. ,

People who have been abused ironically will  also next abuse others.. . Free speech has never been a right to bully,  slander, degrade, abuse anyone anywhere for that matter basically  anyway, not even a religious or a political group. http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/17/the-too-common-abusive-silent-treatment/

“Whoever slanders his neighbor in secret, him will I put to silence…him  will I not endure” (Psa. 101:5). “You speak continually against your  brother and slander your own mother’s son…But I will rebuke you and  accuse you to your face!” (Psa. 50:20-21).”

The verbal and  mental abusers often known as control freaks, or bullies, and then there  are the physical abusers. The sad reality is abusers rarely change  unless they are made personally to face some severe negative  consequences, and the older they are the more severe it seems it has to  be..

Now what about

1: Can people change?

2: Sibling rivalry

3: Bullies

4: Control freaks

For a start do also see:

http://sacredtruths.wordpress.com/2012/02/04/those-unacceptable-persons-bullies-abuserscontrol-freaks-liars-slanderers/

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2009/01/30/bullies-thugs-proud-oppressors-war-mongers/

First you merely ask the guilty, bad persons personally to repent  twice, the first time without a witness, the second time with witnesses  THAT you have asked them to repent.. and proof, substantiation is NOT  required.. after you have done that you can next post it openly on the  net, tell all the others. Next God is fully free to deal with the  unrepentant guilty offenders and believe me he will.. I have now been  doing for decades too.. https://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/11/i-am-a-slave-to-no-man/

It is still up to the courts or the Human Rights commissions firstly to  confirm, to define what is actually libelous, slanderous, a hate email  message.. and someone’s else’s statement and opinions on the subject  does not count. But to be on the safe side if you want to avoid court  costs, ligation, if you are unsure if what you write is libel,  slanderous, prosecutable better not post it on the net. Wrongfully  accusing someone of posting a hate message or being a racists clearly  can be challenged in courts as a hate message itself and prosecutable.

Why do even professing Christian post lies, slander on the net now?  What hidden agenda do they realy have? It could be that they want to be  worshipped solely, to receive alone all the praise of others for a  start.. they falsely want to be the sole center of attention.. even  sibling rivalry.. Sadly some professing Christians are abusive, they do  try to dominate, do disrespect others, and falsely try to censure  others, do lie about and slander them as well. These abuses. sins, wrong  doings are always still a personal choice that has nothing fully to do  with one’s persons personal political or religious beliefs, experiences  now too. Slandering, lying about, calling a specific person false names,  personal attacks, in a church or even on any public forum is still  unacceptable now even if you are a Christian,a Catholic, a Baptist or a  Plymouth Brethren now too.

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