She was selfish, self-absorbed, self-centered and depressed

 
I was amazed that so many people next tend to make this one also one of my more popular posts.
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A Common  Loser’s Strategy is asking to  Look at me! Notice me. See who I am! Pay attention to me.   I am great!  I AM THE GREATEST! Worship me, Praise me. Losers worship the false god of self.
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A Common  Loser’s Strategy is also to Seek Revenge.
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Too often in life I have met too many a proud, perverse, dictatorial manager, administrators, actually slave drivers,  who gets often  upset. do pout that others that do not cower in fear, do not submit in absolute reverence under their feet. They now have set themselves up for severe  disappointment or heartache or failure in their lives. Years later I met some of these same people unemployed, even destitute and broke.. Many of us want to succeed but at what costs, at the false costs of others? For too many persons Power is intoxicating? Some bad persons they now  get a little power and they falsely do think  can be abusive with it.  they  get a little control and thy also get greatly manipulate. they tend to want all things done  their way and they try to manipulate and maneuver others, to get these people to do the things they  want done, for  they are   a bully, just like Haman who used his power falsely to bully the people around him. Dream on they are heading for a rude awakening. Their Bitterness is a wasted life.
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She was merely another typical, common big liar,  selfish, self-absorbed, self-centered and fascinated with her  own ego, and its false agenda, she still was a people manipulator, a control freak, lazy, unrealistic,  an extremist, with her  lies, distorted, false values, who had tried to live her dreams on others. She was impatient, unkind, ruthless, uncaring, immoral  and she still next could not understand why she was so despised, unwanted, unloved too by all others and why she had a low self esteem.  She lost it all, her home, her possessions now too. She had once expected her family, her loved ones, her own special ones to fully look after her, but even they did not want her anymore. She now had ended her life living all alone, in loneliness, with no visitors, friends, to visit her. She has now finally reaped what she had sowed. She had failed to listen to anyone who had warned her that this was what would happen to her next too. Believe me or just now go to the old age homes, see thousands of persons there sitting day and night in a prison chair by the elevator doors with now no one coming to visit them, no one wanting to see them.. and they also now used to think it all  happens only to some one else..  it never would happen to them.. they now reaped a bad whirlwind too.
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(Rev 18:7 KJV)  How much she hath glorified herself, and lived deliciously, so much torment and sorrow give her: for she saith in her heart, I sit a queen, and am no widow, and shall see no sorrow. 8  Therefore shall her plagues come in one day, death, and mourning, and famine; and she shall be utterly burned with fire: for strong is the Lord God who judgeth her.
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FACE IT MOST PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS REAP WHAT THEY SOW INCLUDING DEMONIC DEPRESSIONS
http://kambulow.blogspot.ca/2013/06/the-possession.html
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Reality- Severe Mid Life crisis, depression IS  TOO COMMON TO PEOPLE WHO  NEXT REAP  MANY BAD THINGS CAUSE THEY HAVE BEEN SELF CENTERED, SPOILED, UNKIND..
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This DEPRESSION syndrome is a familiar one. BOTH MEN AND WOMEN AFTER a certain age — and it is not almost always men — do wake up one day and do realize  that they still are no longer the center of the universe and they had not achieved all  MOSTLY FALSE GOALS THAT THEY HAD WANTED  AND FOR THEM IT IS DEPRESSING and they do often go crazy as a direct result too..  FACING THEIR MID LIFE CRISIS. Blaming your spouse for it is a waste of time here too.
http://stayinhealth.wordpress.com/2008/11/21/anti-suicide-watch/
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Others  now fail to look their way, co-workers don’t scurry to fetch them coffee and bosses stop thinking of them a long time ago as someone on the rise. Mommy’s spoiled child rather. Overly self serving, self centered, overly Ambitious. So they consider the alternatives, such as recalibrations, adjustments, or a career changes, clothing style changes,  and/or using their jobs resources even  to attain their still rather unattainable goals, or by developing a new strategy.. but mostly none of it tends to work, it merely continues their self defined fiascos, for their PERSONAL DESIRES,  goals were unrealistic to start of with. So they continue a life of vanity, hubris, malice, even violence, anger, envy, jealousy, rage as well too often, plus their still false  arrogance and conceit.  They next  still hold on to  their false notions. They have their own developed, defined strategies. And to anyone who disagrees, it’s dam-you, for you’re nothing, you’re a nobody, you’re pathetic LOSER. If we do now open our eyes we all can see it in world wide,  over and over, everywhere too.
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Losers making it all worse for themselves because they naively refuse to live with the reality of who they basically are still too.
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In our present modern day world of constant struggle to sustain ourselves economically, it is easy to let stress become predominant, and this in turn, will lead to self centeredness and compromising our own personal moral values firstly. Furthermore deliberate ignorance, stupidity, emotional blackmails. and a false  dogmatism have wrecked havoc on many a human life as well.
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All greatness and all examples of real heroes in life now still  arise from those persons who have held themselves up to a higher standard, ideal then the Kingdom of Self.
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Unless one is healed, from the consequences of one’s on sins, unacceptable acts and goals a person is heading toward often sufferings, ill health and depressing moods. Dysfunctional and addictive behavior, bitter losses, and personal crises next escalate  from not doing enough  to fix things in our lives that have broken  down. They next tend to  succumb before the smallest of obstacles.
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Maybe I knew him too well but what still surprised me was that my father too  was one of the more extreme, unique persons, and he was most self centered, selfish, smug person that I knew, and also he never bothered to try to change himself for the better, for he was happy the way he was, doing his own thing. He solely, always saw everyone else’s faults too but never his own even because he was too lazy to try to make positive changes in his own life.  Sadly many of his too many bad friends were like him now as well.  Still effectively helping to change any others can only come from ones own good personal example, original experience.  Ironically my dad he thought he also was a good person who deserved next to go to heaven, something I completely disagreed with. He died a horrible death, months in painful agony..  I have never seen a person suffer so much..
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The unhealed past can and will cripple you. All of us have been wounded by our interactions with the world, and as these psychic scars accumulate inside our emotional bodies, the more disturbed we become. Over time, they only get worse. Unless a personal effort is made to heal the experiences of hurt, disappointment, rejection, and humiliation from the past, then these persons will continue to have a debilitating effect in our lives. It takes real personal effort to make positive changes in our own life as well. ” Rare is the person who takes time to journal, to walk in nature, or to discuss with others at a deep level what can be done to improve the quality of one own and those of others around them.”
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 “Books and teachers may point the way, but ultimately, they do not light the path to deep understanding, and only make a false impression of learning. True spirituality consists of acts of kindness, moments of wisdom, and feelings of high inspiration from God. When we learn and absorb the lessons of our own life, enjoy genuine warmth in relationship to other people and experience wonder when contemplating the great scheme of all life, then we may awaken to spiritual understanding. All Institutions, no matter how venerable, they cannot make you spiritual.” 
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 In your efforts to improve your life by healing these symptoms of failure, do not look around you for much reinforcement, because most people are in deep denial of their own inadequacies.  http://success.articleberry.com/7-root-causes-of-bitter-failure
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Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as a green herb. Psalm 37:1-2
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(Est 3:5 KJV)  And when Haman saw that Mordecai bowed not, nor did him reverence, then was Haman full of wrath.

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(Est 7:10 KJV)  So they hanged Haman on the gallows that he had prepared for Mordecai.

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(Est 8:1 KJV)  On that day did the king Ahasuerus give the house of Haman the Jews’ enemy unto Esther the queen. And Mordecai came before the king; for Esther had told what he was unto her.

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Everyone should know by now that self worth, self esteem is a direct product of how you see yourself, or how others see you, do treat you but it is also related  directly to what you do.. which can lead to One’s depression.

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Now do nothing at all or do mostly bad things and you will feel guilty, you will have a low self worth.

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Let someone one oppress, abuse you and it can drive you next in reality  to personal insanity now as well.. Recognition of the problem is a major part of the solution here.. In older adults, symptoms of depression may also include signs of dementia like memory problems and confusion, feelings of extreme irritability or anxiety, pacing and fidgeting. Depression can show itself in headaches, back or muscle aches, racing heart rates, stomach or other gastrointestinal upsets, which can be alleviated if the physical symptoms are prevented or managed with treatment. Other health conditions including heart attack, stroke, hip fractures, and macular degeneration are known to be associated with development of depression. Older women are at a greater risk for depression, and women in general are twice as likely as men to become seriously depressed. Depression is not a normal part of aging, it tends to be a consequential aspect of one’s life. Depression often is an untreated sickness.   Undiagnosed and untreated depression often has serious negative personal consequences. First find out if you are personally responsible for your depression and next start doing good things instead like eating properly, stop consuming drugs, alcohol and cigarettes too, try  getting enough sleep, and managing properly your purchases, expenditures, etc. During the winter season, it’s normal to get the “blues” and to feel as if the weight of the world is closing in all around. Part of the “blues” stem from a lack of routine or exercise, little or not enough light, and less interaction with others.  Most people still do possess the ability to bounce back from the blues and start new with a fresh burst of energy.  80 percent of older adults recover from depression after receiving appropriate treatment, actions.or next  find out  if someone really is responsible for it.. and when you do know who that someone is do call the police, do loudly object, oppose all human rights abuses, do now expose that criminal to all.. stop the abuse. Shout the sin from the Housetop.

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One of the real sad fact of real life is those minority group of perverted persons, the people abusers who see others as an object to be used to advance themselves, to make money from or to profit from, and once they see that you are of no use to them they immediately do dump you, do not use you anymore,  and that includes not just many of the business persons, realtors, landlords, news reporters, editors, salesmen, consultants, professionals, neighbors, acquaintances  cops, civil and public servants, pastors, politicians, doctors and  medical staff now as well..

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I usually do refer to them as prostitutes, gigalos,  pimps  or slave drivers. So when these same people next often get depressed, do face major negative setbacks.. my heart now basically does not bleed for them..

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Overcoming depression. Anxiety stress relief vitamins and minerals work in different ways by providing nutrients which control the metabolism rate and the hormone levels within our bodies. By keeping these two things stable we can provide a better mechanism to cope with stress and anxiety inducing situations. Most of the recommended anxiety stress relief vitamins and minerals can be found in the foods that we eat and can simply be attained by eating a healthy and balanced diet covering all the major food groups. And that is why eating proper foods is important. The Elderly persons need more special care cause they do tend to lack  the basic vitamins found in our common foods that help also to reduce one’s personal stress and anxiety.. for a hungry persons tends to be continually stressed and anxious and also do often   manifest  depression as well.. and what the classic treatment for depression is time, healing, by giving them proper nourishment, and proper rest and sleep.. in this case supplemented by proper pain killers, not improper pain killers  and/or merely  given proper sleeping pills too.
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Here is how I do try to help many people. You firstly still cannot help anyone who refuses to admit they want help and is unwilling to receive help firstly. So I patiently wait for them to ask for help. SOME PERSONS SADLY DO  NEED TO GO THROUGH SOME UNBELIEVABLE HARDSHIPS TOO BEFORE THEY ASK FOR HELP.

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Next in love I let them talk, I listen, and I clearly agree with their truths, and I also do in love clearly point out the errors of the past, present ways. I look for the root cause of  their problems, not merely observing their outward symptoms.

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(Prov 22:1 KJV)  A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold.
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(Eccl 7:1 KJV)  A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one’s birth.
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Here is another thing I  do see too often, are the bad people trying to falsely justify holding on to their lies, false values, no good approach to life and their bad friends.. next these very same bad friends do turn upon them, hurt them and the abused now next sing a very different tune about their friends too..
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I get so upset with the sad selfish, self centered ostriches, and bad sheep who try to be politically correct, say to me and you that we are helpless to try to change the facts, nothing will change the facts of life, it is all a waste of time, so stop rocking the boat.. but now next these very very same perverts and when they get abused they loudly do scream murder, do demand I do everything to help them , to make their abuse known and corrected.. what a change when it concerns them and not the others. So one can say anything they want and even believe it.. but when one actually has to face death.. Reality when it comes to dying and facing the Maker, knowing that next you will reap what you sow, i see firsthand many many people begging to stay alive at all costs..
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Face it the single biggest cause of depression basically is your own doings and not just a bad marriage..  over 74 percent of persons complain about their spouses, marriage. But don’t expect any marriage to make you happier over having a personal relationship with God still or the new or old marriage to be a false substitute for having a personal relationship with God.
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I have been recently counseling a person who desperately wants to be remarried, she has been twice married, but she is not interesting in following after God only after her own desires, lusts.. so no marriage for her will make her happy or replace God’s vacuum in her life still too. God has not promised you now even a right of remarriage.. but he promised you peace, joy and happiness and yes you can have that outside of marriage with Jesus..
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Eccl 7:13 KJV)  Consider the work of God: for who can make that straight, which he hath made crooked? 14  In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: God also hath set the one over against the other, to the end that man should find nothing after him. 15  All things have I seen in the days of my vanity: there is a just man that perisheth in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man that prolongeth his life in his wickedness. 16  Be not righteous over much; neither make thyself over wise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself? 17  Be not over much wicked, neither be thou foolish: why shouldest thou die before thy time? 18  It is good that thou shouldest take hold of this; yea, also from this withdraw not thine hand: for he that feareth God shall come forth of them all.
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Local Medical services fall drastically short of what it should be

 

 
Most Canadian Medicare, Hospital administrators  in reality still do not not try to improve the medical care system, do not  try reduce the Medical costs, nor do they try to identify the management of chronic diseases as a way of improving patient care and reducing hospital costs. Why should they after all the more patients, the more important they feel they are.
 
Public exposure and prosecution of the guilty serves everyone’s best interest .   Firstly putting more money into pails full of holes is the root ER, Medicare problem.. Honestly face it that still too many doctors and bad nurses do nothing or are incompetent, and none of them are being even supervised firstly, never rightfully being punished or fired. More money never helps to solve a pretentious, inadequate Montreal medical care system in reality sadly still composed often of lazy medical workers now too..  CFCF also do lie or mislead for they implied, had said that there are only about 220 persons waiting for heart surgery out of 3.4 million patients in hospitals per year.. no one even believes that now too. Try rather 22,000 patients or much more! It also often does seems a common unacceptable fact at the federal, provincial, municipal that where money is involved not excluding contracts, purchasing there is the ongoing temptation to steal some of it Canada wide, not just in BC , Ontario, Quebec.. even in Hospitals, Universities now too.. Many people steel their money by not doing an honest days work for their pay still here too.
 
The parents Lisa Guerin and Jonathan Hope  of a 16-month-old girl who died  are guilty of failing to provide the necessities of life, a judge ruled The two were ordered to stay in custody until March 19, when a date will be set for sentencing. Any doctor nurse, hospital administrator, health ministers who fails to adequately look after a sick patients deserves the same thing now too.. a criminal record.
 
Many matured senior patients with serious medical problems they tend to return solely to the OFTEN CROWED Emergency rooms because they they have learned that family doctor does not have the necessary medical equipment, tools, tests  to diagnose their SERIOUS MEDICAL PROBLEMS, only the Hospitals tend to have them generally and so they now are regular users of the emergency room..
 
While we now still do tend to have the best medical services availability in Canada, only in some parts of Canada, such as Montreal, Ottawa, Toronto, our medical services still do fall drastically short of what it should be overall still as well. Self centered charge card  happy doctors are still too often uncaring, pretentious, even incompetent.
  
It seems that McGill University Medical Doctors still do tend to take on a attitude that it is condescending for them to serve us any of us, we all should be subservient and really should be grateful that they have agreed to help us. The Governor General Michaelle Jean delivers speech criticizing rampant materialism  has delivered a speech critical of unrestrained market forces in a speech at McGill University. Jean told an audience in Montreal today that globalization shouldn’t simply be about making money, but about helping people.  The Governor General says market forces are extremely influential, and can risk drowning out such values as the common good. ” “We are living in a world in which spaces for critical debate, reflection and civic action are increasingly being assailed by the alluring sirens of fleeting gratification and cultural conformity,” she said. “More and more, impersonal market forces are influencing public life, while notions of the common good and altruistic action are being challenged by an ethic of ‘everyone for himself or for his clan.’  by “ saying no to a world in which our obsession with profit makes us turn a blind eye to suffering” and where “prosperity is detrimental to our environment,” Jean said. 
  
Last Monday FEB 22, I had now met in the emergency ward of the MONTREAL WEST ISLAND Pointe Claire Lakeshore General Hospital a patient who was next to my father, As you know my father was admitted here also due to cardiac failure, water on the lung on Monday now, M Bergeron ( NOT HER REAL NAME ) M Bergeron now she had fallen on the street on the ice had broken her arm, and had also hurt her hip. The hospital had put a cast on her arm, and next the emergency room, triage nurses had wrongfully tried repeatedly to force the patient to walk so that she could be discharged. The patient was crying in agony in pain while the cruel, despotic, unsympathetic nurses at the LGH were forcing her to walk in my witness as well. And days later the same patient was still in the same bed and had not received any appropriate treatment for her leg, she now was transferred to the overflow ward where she was next forgotten by her original doctor, even though finally it was confirmed that she did have a fractured hip. I am confident that had she been a young person she would have got the treatment within 24 hours. On Friday Feb 26, now five days later, the nurse on her morning rounds discovers M Bergeron had now a high temperature, was vomiting, and had diarrhea, and M Bergeron was send to the isolation room in the same section. The Nurse next phoned a new doctor from the ER to come and see her which he did about 10.30 AM, THAT SHE TOO NOW HAD THE nova VIRUS, FOOD POISONING VIRUS, THAT WAS RAMPANT ON THE FOURTH FLOOR, the LGH orthopedic ward, so also it was very likely the visiting doctor from the orthopedic floor who had visited her in the first emergency center that passed it on to her, cause she was not seen by any doctors in the overflow section prior to today, and I have been there for the whole week now too with my father. The new emergency doctor phoned the original doctor in my presence and complained to him he had neglected his patient. M Bergeron and arranges medical tests CT scan for her, which were done about 3.00 pm today. About 7.00 pm next during evening shift M Bergeron had shit in her diaper and she as I had heard had called both senior nurses on duty to change her diaper, and they had refused to do so, it was supposedly below their dignity to do so, AND THE MALE ORDERLY HAD GONE FOR HIS BREAK, AND SO M Bergeron SHE LAY THERE IN HER SHIT, AND M Bergeron HAD NEXT ASKED ME TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. SHE ALSO COMPLAINED TO ME SHE WAS FREEZING IN HER ISOLATION ROOM, AND I TALKED TO THE NURSES ON DUTY BUT THE NURSES ON DUTY THIS EVENING NOW STILL REFUSED TO CHANGE HER DIAPER AND COULD NOT HELP HER WITH THE HEAT PROBLEM.

NOW WHAT KIND OF ACCEPTABLE MEDICAL SERVICES IS THIS NOW? NOW I WANT THE ORIGINAL DOCTOR CRIMINAL PROSECUTED FOR FAILING TO MEET HER MEDICAL NEEDS, AND THE TWO ATTENDING EVENING NURSES NOW AS WELL for failing to changer her soiled diaper.. http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2010/02/23/and-now-how-many-more-are-there-like-him/

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– Next I could not help to also notice how many  women I talk to still do wrongfully suffer from their untreated mental depression, not even realizing what the main, root cause of their depression now is as well. Self! An ostrich approach or burying oneself in more activism, denials as well does not help their situations.
 
– Now as the general population is getting older, for the war babies especially, I could also not help put notice the many problems, including severe  loneliness, anxiety, stresses our seniors do have, and they do now have very few decent advocates to speak out for them. Recently I have met many, many bitter crippled   wheeled chaired seniors indicating no one cares to help them, look after their needs, concerns in Hospitals, convalescent, old age homes and I even here do suffer with them too..
 
Being an engineer I too now am familiar with the science of observation, data and it’s analysis too as well.. so thus I had ALREADY noted specifically  that  for over 2 years my father goes to his family doctor and complains about his pain in his shoulder.. Unbelievable.. the recent sad, unacceptably bad and real past medical tragic comedy of errors..  Now you already all do know in writing even as how I feel rightfully about the mostly still unsupervised, too often rather bad  doctors and nurses at the too often bad McGill Hospitals.   For a start for over 2 years my father  goes to his now undeniable quack, the useless McGill RVH family doctor, GP Dr. Zoghby,  and my father often complains to him, and next to many others  about his continuous severe pain in his shoulder.  Now firstly the same bad doctor prescribes my father next a harmful pain killer that was  banned in the US but still available in Canada, and when my father continues to complain about his shoulder pain the bad doctor now also prescribes an anti depressant pill too.. even unknown to my father,  instead of dealing effectively, squarely with my father’s shoulder pain. Certainly clinical depression, panic attacks  and stress build up, anxiety  are rightfully too very common problems for even all of the non senior,  elderly  people  who firstly do  get poor remedial care from their rather bad   doctors too!  Next another McGill doctor at the LGH geriatric floor early this year even continues the ill advised original pain killer.. until now  over 1 1/2 years later I do  point out that fact to LGH in writing too that I had found out on the internet it was rather a harmful pain pill that was even ill advised to persons with respiratory problems firstly, and it was to be used only for a maximum of 3 days and not months rather..  well  this new also useless LGH McGill doctor next prescribes a new useless pain killer.. but my father still has the very severe pain in his  shoulder. And for weeks he and I still complain to the LGH hospital administrator as to why nothing was being still done about my father’s ongoing shoulder pain now too. Finally after being hospitalized 3 times at the LAKESHORE GENERAL HOSPITAL, (LGH,) including now twice for his anxiety, stress related sickness.. basically the old stress my father has had related to his past inadequate McGill doctors, and their inadequate medications,   a new  great doctor,  Dr Dumont, does  prescribes a great pain killer that works well,  And  the  new great doctor also continues to prescribe the old pain killer since he says my dad should rightfully now  go back to his family doctor for his pill reviews.. now  when does one now basically need to have two concurrent pain killers ?  The anti depressant pill and  the old pain killer too both also now   have severe  side effects of severe drowsiness.  The good Nurses at Maison Herron  had also questioned to me the need for some  of these so many pills my father takes, took.   But  by now my father has at least 7 charge HAPPY doctors on the payroll and  all who, had unsuccessfully tried different experimental things for  my father’s shoulder pains, but  only one now was successful, the LGH’s great Dr Dumont, with his oxycodone, but  still  all of the others do also ask my father to come back every 3 months. Obviously this family doctor now  GP Dr. Zoghby was fired by my father and I and we are getting a new overall good doctor.    During these two years my father is even hospitalized 3 times at the LGH, and placed in a convalescent home, and no one, no one doctor  still does a full review of all his medications.. to determine firstly if they all were needed, instead they had merely wrongfully too continuingly had previously prescribed the previous medications by the other doctors, and no doctor  had done an overall   review of their   side effects.  But by now I got called into the picture and I   myself really got fed up with the too many medical quacks I came across  here  and I seriously started to examine everything they did and even as to why!!!  Now as you all do know and maybe  you all still may wonder why Medicare is so expensive. A very Simple answer obviously! It was the too many charge happy medical doctors or quacks.  Well now finally my father he has 2 great McGill LGH doctors  and the rest of them are being terminated, rightfully fired  and so they all should be even.
  
There are two clearly main, very unacceptable basic Problems also with Canada’s health care systems that need to be first dealt with, and it is also now the same basic problems with our too often costly, inadequate civil and public servants, cops, politicians: 
-Unlike in the Private sector, in the Hospital, in the medical services, the gods, the doctors and nurses do wrongfully think they are above the law, above being touched, can do anything or nothing and get away with it, Does it also remind you of the bad MP’s, bad MLA’s, bad Aldermen, cops and the bad RCMP as well? No continual, really functional  recall tends to exist!
 
– The clear lack of adequate supervisors, supervision of the all of subordinates, and thus  when a person cheats, lies, steals, performs badly unlike in the private system, they wrongfully are generally not punished, not fired, nor also their bad supervisors for that matter now as well
 
 
 

 

The type of service you will get really depends on the type of doctor you have, on the province you are in, on the specific hospital you go  to as well and it varies.. from bad, very poor to great. You may have to go to at least 3 different doctors as a result.
 
A causally dressed visitor was standing by a recently admitted patients in the Hospital triage section, discovered many persons coming to ask him medical questions, and when he asked them why they were coming to him they had replied ” I thought you were a doctor cause you were standing there doing nothing”.
 
The doctor  examining an elderly patient  who was complaining of his chronic pains next says , “I am sorry there is nothing I can do for you”. The Patient replies, “Doctor if it was your own pain you would have found a cure for it.”  
A man approaches the front  reception  desk of a local Hospital and says to the receptionist ” My Hospital Ombudsman she says I am crazy”. The receptionist replies “the Psych ward is on the second floor and someone can help you to get there”. He replies “Good and thank you, I want to commit her to the ward”.
 
I know from personal experiences and that even of another family member, My father, the related after Emergency Hospital visit medical follow services at McGill University Hospitals especially  such as the Montreal Jewish General Hospital, and the Lake shore General Hospital tend to be very pathetic, unacceptably disastrous, really bad, inadequate   compared to other Hospitals.. I saw firsthand how my own father got poor, useless medical follow-up in the last 2 years at the LGH. Now one in 20 Canadians who has a heart attack – a common cause of rehospitalization – is urgently readmitted within a month of being discharged, according to the Canadian Institute for Health Information. Now also  include  some other common serious sickness as well. An analysis published last year in the New England Journal of Medicine showed the chances of rehospitalization only increase over time. Generally, the sicker the patient and the longer and more frequently they spent time in hospitals, the greater their chances of dying or being rehospitalized. For one example, many patients who leave hospital with chronic illnesses such as heart failure or diabetes are at high risk of being readmitted. But often, they are left to cope on their own.
 
Many patients do not get clear instructions on what medications they should be taking, and they frequently have difficulties making additional, specific doctor appointments to continue treatment outside the hospital. A number of patients return because they do not have access to a competent family doctor and so are regular users of the emergency room. 
 
My neighbor and his wife go to one local McGill doctor and he said there is no cure for your wife’s arm pain. he goes to another McGill doctor and the doctor says there is a cure, it requires surgery. How can you have one Doctor  so stupid now ?
 
More and more people I talk to agree with me that there are now much to many indifferent doctors and nurses, social welfare workers now too  need to be held criminally responsible for their false, past neglect, abuse  of their patients, people in their care  in reality. I agree. I rightfully do now demand it. So who is really looking after my rightful complaints about the bad McGill Hospitals ombudsman, doctors, nurses in reality? RSVP
 
My neighbor and his wife go to one local McGill doctor and he said there is no cure for your wife’s arm pain. he goes to another McGill doctor and the doctor says there is a cure, it requires surgery. How can you have one Doctor  so stupid now ?
 
More and more people I talk to agree with me that there are now much to many indifferent doctors and nurses, social welfare workers now too  need to be held criminally responsible for their false, past neglect, abuse  of their patients, people in their care  in reality. I agree. I rightfully do now demand it.
 

Compare all with this with too many people who themselves do still have a very negative overall lifestyle and they also do fail to seriously realize the effect it will have on their personal health..

 
– and when I see firsthand a seriously suffer, dying of kidney, liver failure in a hospital due to their too much wine, alcoholic consumption it kind of wakes me some up some more. Alcoholism has always been an undeniable major problem in Canada  now too.. A person is suffering from heart problem, kidney, liver failure, alcoholism, and likely diabetes next and who knows what next now as well?  he also does not take his medical problem serious enough.. he is too typical now as well.. firstly he needs to start off with an eating  diet change.. less red meat and more fruit, vegetables, smaller meal portions too.. which he refuses to do.. so he will likely die an earlier death in a hospital with plenty of sufferings as well.. what is also really unbelievable is that his wife who  is a dietician even and she lets her husband do, eat whatever he wants.. for she still really does not care about his good health, related lifestyle… basically she has her own unresolved needs.. 
 
On the surface, at least, Canadians  appear to be among the healthiest in the country when it comes to cardiovascular disease.  But the realties  are deceiving and paint a much different picture once you look into them. Twenty-two per cent of them smoke, 60 percent of them drink alcohol, 50 per cent are overweight or obese and 67 per cent do not eat a healthy diet. Many persons have often, continually unresolved negative personal stress   All of these factors contribute to high blood pressure — and they are entirely preventable, or deal able with.  A lot of what we perceive to be healthy eating and doing actually isn’t.  For starters, all persons people should shake their addiction to salty, packaged meals. reduce their red meat consumptions, reduce their meal sizes, eat more regularly too, One of the biggest problems is the high amount of sodium in our food,” This salt encourages water in the blood to remain, and gives more work for the heart to pump. Everyone does have  responsibilities, parents, spouses, food distributors as do governments and food manufacturers. Now  it’s about all of us doing a better job to increase public awareness and promoting more lifestyle changes around being healthy. According to the World Health Association, high blood pressure is the leading risk for death in the world.  Hypertension is the leading cause of heart and stroke disease, but there are no obvious symptoms.  Now  regular Doctor checkups,  with a competent and not too often a pretentious doctor too, to screen for hypertension, Diabetes as well  are required since studies suggest will affect half of all Canadians by the time they turn 60.  Over time, high blood pressure can damage blood vessel walls causing scarring that promotes the buildup of plaque deposits, which narrow and eventually block blood flow. Increased blood pressure can lead to heart attacks, strokes, kidney failure and other diseases that many persons next do die from. One in five Canadians has high blood pressure — and many  Canadians are among the least likely in the country to take measures to lower it. Only  80 per cent of the 4.6 million Canadians with hypertension take medication to control it, according to new findings from Statistics Canada. Doing things like having a  healthy diet high in fruits and vegetables and low in saturated fat is very effective, as is regular physical activity and maintaining a healthy body weight.  The prevalence of high blood pressure was about the same in men as in women, but men were less likely to be aware of their condition. The numbers should give all cause for concern.   
 Blood Pressure Risk Factors
– – Smoking
– – Lack of exercise
– – Poor diet and excess sodium
– – Excessive alcohol consumption
– – Being overweight or obese
 
It is very interesting that when most of the news reporters, governments tend to write about heart attacks, or car accidents  they seem to downplay, omit alcohol’s effect and why is that? THEY LIKE ALSO TO DRINK?
 
– Hypertension another  leading personal cause of heart attacks, strokes and other major medical problems. For most North Americans even if you don’t have high blood pressure now, you need to make a serious lifestyle, food  adjustments now to avoid personal health problems, especially Cancer and Heart diseases next  in one’s future.   A person is considered hypertensive with a blood-pressure reading of 140/90 millimetres of mercury (mmHg) or higher. Healthy adults should have a blood pressure in the range of 120/80 mmHg, although that target varies with age and other health conditions. There are many DIFFERENT factors that contribute to high blood pressure, including first the type of one’s food consumption, too much read meat, not enough fruit and vegetables,  being overweight, a lack of physical activity, excessive sodium consumption and aging. Hypertension, while it has few obvious symptoms, is a leading risk factor for heart disease, stroke, diabetes and kidney disease. To Help with many person’s medical symptoms of their diseases often we may still  have to deal with the root causes of their sicknesses too.. including their stress, anxieties, their wrong doings too.
 
I too have found one of the free great cure, a help to relieve my high blood pressure *, stress, and instead of keeping it all boiled up inside, I express it, share it with everyone else all of  the things that rightfully have peeved me off, and it seems I keep on coming back to my favorite complaints until they actually get resolved including .. http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2009/09/04/cure-for-stress-high-blood-pressure-heart-attack/
 
 
 
DO ALSO NOTE THAT  I REALLY NOW DO NOT TRY TO PLEASE EVERYONE, I DO NOT DEPEND ON ADVERTISERS FOR NONE OF MY INCOME, SINCE I ALSO DO NOT WORRY ABOUT BEING FIRED OR NOW PLEASING ANY BOSSES I NOW CAN WRITE AND DEAL WITH THE TRUTH. SO I DO NOT HAVE TO RESORT TO LIES, OMISSIONS, SPINS AS WE SEE SO MANY BAD NEWS REPORTERS NOW EVEN DO AS WELL.
 
In reality we all do know there are good and bad people in real life, sadly too many bad persons, that includes bad professionals, the bad lawyers, bad doctors, bad nurses, bad hospital administrators, bad cops., bad RCMP., bad  corporations and bad business persons now too and not just too many bad, unacceptable Politicians, ministers too now. and bad hospitals even ..
 
NOW I ALSO KNOW FOR DECADES THAT OF YOU GIVE A GOOD WORKER A JOB HE DOES HIS BEST, WHEREAS IF YOU GIVE A BAD WORKER A JOB, THE SHIFTLESS PERSONS TRIES TO AVOID DOING ANY WORK EVEN BY LYING, HAVING TOO MANY COFFEE BREAKS, GOSSIPING WITH MANY OTHERS, LONG LUNCH BREAKS.. SUCKING UP TO OTHERS.. ETC