Religious Bullies

 

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Hebrews 9:27 tells us…it is appointed unto men once to die, and after this the judgment

 
 John 3:19 And this is the basis for judgment: The light (Jesus Christ) has come into the world, but people loved the darkness more than the light because their actions were evil.

 
Jeremiah 9:6 states: You live in the midst of deception; in their deceit they refuse to acknowledge me,” declares the LORD.

(Prov 16:25 KJV)  There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

(Mat 23:33 KJV)  Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell?

Those unacceptable persons, the oppressors, bullies, abusers, control freaks, liars, slanderers
(Micah 2:8 KJV) Even of late my people is risen up as an enemy: ye pull off the robe with the garment from them that pass by securely as men averse from war.
 
So you got lied about, slandered, abused, put down.. I’m so sorry this has happened! You certainly don’t deserve that.. It is unacceptably sad, stupid and realy unacceptable that anyone would do that to anyone, you included..  . but what else should we expect from the devil? and his followers.. we still do ask these demonic lead persons to repent and demand they be exposed, prosecuted as well.. Now exemplary public exposure and prosecution of such unrepentant guilty persons serves everyone’s best interest.. I do…  Christ told us this would happen, that they would lie about us and make false claims against us. But still I do not cover up their hate crimes nor excuse it.. note the people who killed Jesus, the Romans next came and burned the temple and scattered them world wide..
 
(Mat 23:33 KJV) Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell
 
Mat 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. 7 Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh! 8 Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire. 9 And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire. 10 Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven.
 
(Rev 3:19 KJV) As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.
 
(Luke 17:3 KJV) Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him;
 
(1 Tim 5:20 KJV) Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.
 
(2 Tim 4:2 KJV) Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.
 
(Titus 1:13 KJV) This witness is true. Wherefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith;
 
(Titus 2:15 KJV) These things speak, and exhort, and rebuke with all authority. Let no man despise thee.
 
(Jude 1:4 KJV) For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ.
(1 John 2:9 KJV) He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now.
 
(1 John 2:11 KJV) But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes.
 
(1 John 3:15 KJV) Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him.
(1 John 4:20 KJV) If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
 
(Mat 7:16 KJV) Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? 17 Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. 19 Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. 20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. 21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. 22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? 23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity. 24 Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock: 25 And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock. 26 And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand: 27 And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.
 
(1 Cor 9:27 KJV) But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.
Beware always of men and women, bullies, tormentors, control freaks, persons, civil and public servants, politicians, pastors, leaders, elders, who falsely do, will try to enslave you, oppress you, exploit you even while they claim they are proclaiming the truth, democracy, trying to help you, etc.,
 
Is 51:23 ..your tormentors {and} oppressors, those who said to you, Bow down, that we may ride {or} tread over you; and you have made your back like the ground and like the street for them to pass over
 
Most people tend to know that if you support any organizations, churches they tend to be nice to you, but let it be known you do not intend to support them financially thy will bad mouth you, divorce you, ban you.. as long as you put bread in there bread baskets they like it otherwise they will falsely declare war on you.
 
Most internet posters tend to know that if you say nice things to people they tend to like you..
Rebuke them in live, disagree with them they next will go into a rage, personally attack you, lie about you and slander you.. it is cause they are still carnal.. their denial is generally an ongoing a personal problem,
 
WHEN SOMEONE TRIES TO SAY TO YOU SOMETHING LIKE YOU ARE CRAZY THEY TEND TO BE SPEAKING OF THEMSELVES, ARE CONSCIOUS FIRSTLY WHAT THEY THEMSELVES ARE LIKE LIKLEY.
 
Not just ON THE NET, in Churches, amongst the police, politicians, civil and public servants, but I have never seem so many lying, SICK people in one place like who really do delude themselves too often about their self importance and the positive role they are functioning in. When any PERSON NOW, even a professional cannot see what they are doing now is simply so wrong they themselves do now need real professional help too… they tend to be sick, seem to have severe personal, mental disorders next cause one tends to eventually believe next ones lies as being the truth, and they can no no longer differentiate their own lies from reality, the truth. These SEVERE PERSONALITY disorders are generally personally ongoing too leading to more impaired social and/or occupational functioning and can make it difficult to pinpoint a clear dividing line between their pathology and their so called normality. Most of these people with their personality disorders may not perceive that there is anything wrong with their behavior and thus they are not motivated to change it. It is important to note that these personality disorders are considered to have their onset in late adolescence or early adulthood and they alone are responsible for it too. https://postedat.wordpress.com/2012/02/08/you-are-crazy/
 
( Acts 6:10 KJV) And they were not able to resist the wisdom and the spirit …
 
These Abusers are often realy deceived persons falsely believing they alone have the right to speak and to be heard.. they are generally the unacceptable bullies as well now.. all unacceptable always, still.. God himself does not tolerate, all such abuses. The right of free speech is never a right to lie about others, to bully them, to slander them, to put them down..
 
Control freaks or Bullies, abusers, wrongfully do cause others stress so they can maintain a false sense of order. These people themselves firstly are are still riddled mostly with anxiety, fear, insecurity, and anger. They’re very critical of themselves their lover and their friends, but underneath all that still too that supposedly perfect outfit and great body is a mountain of real unhappiness, unresolved guilt, disturbed person.
 
Certainly, it’s natural to want to be in control of your life. But when you have to be in control of the people around you as well, well you have gone crazy, become a fool, a demonic controlled person who can’t rest until you get your way and you are headed down a very bumpy ride, it is easier to try to control yourself, and impossible to control all the others.
 
Someone had the mistaken idea we all do still need to be kind to these bad wolves in sheep clothing, the perverse oppressors, these human rights abusers.. dream on.. them being put into jail is the sole kindness they rather do deserve.
 
The WRONGFULLY STILL Unrepentant bully’s problem is that he or she is one of those bad persons who only feels truly alive when voicing hostility and contempt for his “enemies.” Without that, he or she starts gasping for air. It’s his nature.. self-destructive” .. clearly these immoral Bully, Basher of others, Abusers of others has a disappointed, deflated ego, negative self worth, most likely related to past unresolved guilt, as a result of that the bully, he or she, tries falsely to build their ego up by bashing, hating others, by being an antagonists against his proclaimed enemies, which too often also is most people , for he or she no longer trust anyone, and Abusers this is a common very typical approach, fact in the character build up of Bullies, Bashers, but their approach is futile, the subsequent feeling of self worth dissipates too quickly, are actually replaced by guilt, and his ego, self worth likely needs to be recharged with new hate.. and is replaced with more and larger hatred of the others.
 
(Prov 14:12 KJV)  There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death. 
 
(Mat 23:15 KJV)  Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye compass sea and land to make one proselyte, and when he is made, ye make him two fold more the child of hell than yourselves.
 
(Mat 23:37 KJV)  O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and ye would not! 38    Behold, your house is left unto you desolate.
 
Now in real life I OFTEN TOO DO meet Bullies, even persons who ARE TRYING TO PROMOTE THEIR OWN CULTURAL VALUES on others.. CLEARLY THEY ARE TRYING TO FORM  THE FALSE CULT FOLLOWERS but they are also lying to themselves that they have something superior to offer to others..
I heard recently a speech, a talk  by a religious person to a bunch of elderly persons in a hospital where the speaker  she was trying to tell the others how superior and great  her religion and culture now was but the longer I had listened to her the more it was very clear to me that she had loads of love, self importance  for herself and still very little compassion, values for the others.
 
Now  she clearly was brow beating the others to firstly rather make herself feel good.. even to overcome clearly a very low self image, low self worth of herself she still clearly had,, and she now was not on the right road to truth, peace, happiness, and basically she knew it so that why she was now working so hard to try to convince, to convert the others to her own point of view, merely hoping in the process she could convince herself she was on the right path but in reality she was leading them all closer to hell, yes into more errors

Most people fail to realize that they do even still now need to have a balance of their life of being “assertive”, as well as being “submissive”, and being unbalanced in one or the other is not a positive aspect still as well. And what about you now too? what are you realy like.. overly asssertivae or overly submissive..

..TROUBLE MAKER OR A TIMID SHEEP or are you really Holy Spirit filled , led..

It is very likley that 20 percent of persons tend to have an exaggerated  opinion of themselves, an unreal  one, and they think they can readily teach others meaning acting like basic dictators, lords. oppressors over others, they are actually bullying others? I
In the process both of these inbalanced groups tend to try to teach others when clearly they themselves still do  have a lot to learn.. and the bullies need to take the beam out of their own eyes.. including learning humility.. for God realy still hates the proud hearted persons..

 

 
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For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and

 
 
(Mat 9:13 KJV)  But go ye and learn what that meaneth, I will have mercy, and not sacrifice: for I am not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.
 
 

   
ONE OF THE MOST COMMON EVENTS I ENCOUNTER IN PROFESSING RELIGIOUS CHRISTIAN CHURCHES for decades especially at family gatherings are those people who can clearly see the sin in other persons lives but none in their own.
 
(Mat 7:3 KJV)  And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? 4   Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? 5  Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.
 
The very same persons who often   says to me “the lazy no good persons on social welfare are bums”, they immorally often next  justifies their own false tax evasions by say that “the government takes too much”..
 
(Rev 3:19 KJV)  As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.
(Luke 17:3 KJV)  Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.
(Phil 2:15 KJV)  That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;
(1 Tim 5:20 KJV)  Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.
(2 Tim 4:2 KJV)  Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.
(Titus 1:13 KJV)  This witness is true. Wherefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith;
(Titus 2:15 KJV)  These things speak, and exhort, and rebuke with all authority. Let no man despise thee.
 

Sadly too many persons do  mostly still  live  in a self centered, deluded world of their own doing and making all of their  life. Trying to talk to them is like talking to a brick wall, for they seems to  knows it all.. and rarely do I hear next some great thought, insights or revelations of great truths from them, for they live a very shallow, mediocre life .. except yesterday when one father  was talking to his wife and said “I love money and the things money can buy but my son is worse than I am in this”.. what a revelation but many many years to late, a revelation that did not help his wayward son now….

I have for decades now been blessed and I have  lived a sheltered life for  I have rarely  attended family weddings and funerals were one too often it seems rather encountering those much too many still immoral, crooked, perverse  relatives… all who it also seems they still do think will make it to heaven now next too.
 
And the very same Person  who says to me how could the other mother show any false partiality of  love  towards her  children, for “I love my children equally” is the very same self centered, selfish person who says “my children are the best in the world”, and who rather hates the rest of God’s children, yes she falsely  does often hates everyone else and cares for no one else but her own self centered, selfish desires and that of her own children.
 
These often are the very same exclusive, God chosen persons who think everyone else is going to hell, for their own local church, denomination is the best in the world and they are  only ones going it make it to heaven..  and how foolish, simply deluded they now all are about themselves and others.. they firstly it seems do even need still to repent the most
 
Ironically these excusive class of  people falsely refuse to fellowship with the others professing Christians, the  underdogs, the fifth class citizens.. are the ones most likely themselves now next going to hell instead and not to heaven in reality..  for if you clearly now cannot love the other Christians now here on earth, so what makes you think you will be allowed next to enter Heaven and fellowship with them there? Never!!! (Rev 22:15 KJV)  For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
 
(Mat 22:2 KJV)  The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son, 3  And sent forth his servants to call them that were bidden to the wedding: and they would not come. 4  Again, he sent forth other servants, saying, Tell them which are bidden, Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage. 5  But they made light of it, and went their ways, one to his farm, another to his merchandise: 6  And the remnant took his servants, and entreated them spitefully, and slew them. 7  But when the king heard thereof, he was wroth: and he sent forth his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city. 8  Then saith he to his servants, The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy. 9  Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage. 10  So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests. 11  And when the king came in to see the guests, he saw there a man which had not on a wedding garment: 12  And he saith unto him, Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding garment? And he was speechless. 13  Then said the king to the servants, Bind him hand and foot, and take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth. 14  For many are called, but few are chosen.

(1 John 2:9 KJV)  He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now.

(1 John 2:11 KJV)  But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes.

(1 John 3:15 KJV)  Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him.

(1 John 4:20 KJV)  If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?

(Mat 7:16 KJV)  Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? 17  Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. 18  A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. 19  Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. 20  Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. 21  Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. 22  Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? 23  And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity. 24  Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock: 25  And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock. 26  And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand: 27  And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.

Do you yet know the difference between judging others and a rebuking others?

The Bible if you had read it firstly you would have known that Christians are not allowed to judge those people in the world but they are to judge those people in the church for their wrong behaviors. Pastors and elders can and they are to judge the flock..
 
Luke 12:57 KJV)  Yea, and why even of yourselves judge ye not what is right?

(Jude 1:4 KJV)  For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ.

PERSONAL IGNORANCE OF REALITY AND TRUTH IS A FACT OF LIFE FOR MANY OF US, ALMOST ALL OF US, WE ALL DAILY DO CONTINUE TO LIVE IN IGNORANCE IN THIS WORLD, ONLY GOD’S DIRECT PERSONAL REVELATION IS WHAT SHEDS THE LIGHT FOR SOME OF US AND THUS SENDS US ON THE RIGHT PATH.. DO YOU LET GOD SPEAK TO YOU CONTINUALLY IN REALITY? http://mccainvrsobama.wordpress.com/2009/01/21/does-god-speak-to-you/
 

Anger, Old age sicknesses

 
“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4 NIV)  “The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing” (Zephaniah 3:17 NIV).   “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid” (John 14:27 NIV).  “Be ye angry and sin Not .  Let not the sun go down on your wrath”.
 If you’re an evangelical  Christian you may have been falsely  told that you should never show personal emotions or  get angry, stay cool and you just need to have more faith. Some people do falsely preach that the flesh is sinful and thus all related emotions are sinful, any expressions of pleasures, joy now as well. They forget that God has redeemed us, Body, soul and spirit, our flesh and if we walk in the Holy Spirit  we can also manifest joy, happiness or anger  too now. Many Prophets got angry at unacceptable sins of others. Jesus included.

Too many People tend to too easily go to extreme with anger, rage and too easily.. but sometimes doing nothing can be just as personally devasting, harmful.. excess and imbalance are also wrong.. Getting angry at others too often still neglects one’s own faults too. 

By our falsely burying emotions such as  anger and not acknowledging it, we may prevent ourselves from moving on. “We also often discover that anger is first and foremost a demand for needed change.” We can express our personal anger but we must keep it also under control and not  let it go to excess .

Personal Anger manifestations can also part of the fight/flight brain response to the perceived threat of  one’s potential personal pain or harm like when you know you are being lied to by someone.. I often rightfully do still get angry at the crooked persons too. I am no ostrich to life’s realities.

Yes, Anger is also often associated next with unresolved  personal stress and tensions, even personal betrayal, and anger is one of the natural emotions a person has. A well-known doctor in Switzerland, Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, wrote a book that has changed perspective on how many people deal with grief for any kind of major personal loss. This book, called “On Death and Dying,” shows how she recognized a cycle of emotional stages that now is commonly referred to as the cycle of grief. Anger is the third stage of the cycle, following the stage of shock and denial. The last stage is acceptance of the grief. The stages of the grief process differ for each person and how much time is spent there.  I have often encountered elderly persons in hospitals who had experienced a major grief or some loss, had dealt with something that caused them to be really angry too. Too much  unresolved  anger is not so good to one’s health.

Anger Sickness is generally also associated with unforgiveness, revenge. There definitely have been studies that show that if a person is very hostile or angry for any extended periods of time it can cause various severe personal  health problems.  Chronic anger may weaken the immune system and can cause other health problems, by making a person start bad habits like smoking and drinking. If you keep your anger inside it causes your blood pressure to spike and can even cause long term health problems. Repressed anger might cause unconscious teeth grinding during the day or while the person is asleep. Grinding your teeth can wear down the enamel of your teeth and lead to more serious dental problems. Migraine headaches can occur with the increase of stress that constricts the blood vessels in the brain. Shortness of breath, Stomach pain or diarrhea can be caused by anger. There are other symptoms that anger can cause on the body, such as skin rashes, circulatory problems and even arthritis. It is best to manage your anger by relaxing, taking deep breathes, or even doing breathing exercisescan help calm you down. Anger is a normal emotion that happens in our daily lives.

Anger can often be caused by a reaction to someone else’s wrongs,  anger and frustration. Yes, anger can be a bad  disease, and the remedy lies is controlling  the anger before  it overpowers you!  I  often encounter people who should firstly get good pastoral care, counseling over going first to the Doctor too.  If you are angry, acknowledge that these feelings exist. Then find out why you re angry and try to resolve it !

– “For man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires” (James)
see also http://hubpages.com/hub/Illness-and-Anger-Emotions-of-Chronic-Illness

One of the hospital drugs in shortage today is even morphine.. Do you think when you are hospitalized with very severe pain that you next will continually get adequate pain killers? if you answered yes you are undeniably now very wrong.. and not even if you are dying of cancer..

The pretentious hospital chaplains.. While visiting my father in the hospital In one week I next  saw three fly by church Priests come to visits the sick patients in the hospitals, and they  spend a minute or two with them,  and they really, basically did not much good to any of the patients they had visited. One of these clearly visibly useless  priests visiting a sick patient did not even recognize another member of his own congregation in the same room, and of course he did not even know his name. How the church has become an impersonalized show, merely a financial business it seems today.    Now the Doctors are still often asked to cure sick person  patients symptoms  whose original cause they are basically unaware off. A decent, good, chaplain can maybe help in this matter by first even  taking the time to know, listen, hear the patient’s original concerns.

A very elderly patient  arrived in the Hospital emergency, his first visit to a hospital as well, he now could not walk on one leg cause of the extremely severe pain and so he was hospitalized. While in the hospital he next was visited by 5 different doctors and he now was even given separately 5 different diagnostics as to  what he may have. This is common I have experienced  the same thing myself before too. Doctors tend to relate mainly to heir own experience,  expertise it seems mostly still and  so basically no doctor had told him what they would do next, they decided safely  they would let time and more reviews take it’s course. This all had seemed to have escalated the patient’s pains and concerns.  Next the same patient now developed severe constipation, headaches, even more pain ,dehydration, severe leg cramps  from now lying in a bed all of the week.  I next had listened and talked to the patient for a few days,  and I told him I could see he was also in  stress, personal anxiety.  The patient  next  had admitted that he was in stress when he had been first unable to walk, because at Christmas time unexpectedly his wife was sent to an convalescent home as she had developed the irreversible Alzheimer disease, and now he had next never been alone and  he never had cooked for himself before this. Now he also as a RESULT OF HIS LEG  PAIN he faced himself an uncertain future, possible operation, and transfer to an old age home or convalescent home. After much listening I told him he had now firstly had likely hurt, strained  his back, due to his wife’s unbeneficial stress, which in turn now now affected his leg.  I FIRST HAD SUGGESTED HE TALK WITH HIS DOCTOR AND GET A BACK PAIN MUSCLE RELAXANT TOO  but NEXT  naturally he refused to believe me. I ALSO NEXT HAD suggested he try out a chiropractor  but  he never had gone to one before. I told him the medical doctors approach would achieve the same results but IT would likely take much longer time using pills. But now even none of the hospital pain killers were now even  helping him at all including morphine because the root causes are not being addressed. Few doctors or nurses will tell a patient directly that t  his sickness is in his own  head, or his own doing now too.  The patient  next called his son  by phone, and his son next had agreed to take him in, after he was released from the hospital. His son next also had agreed with me,  that  the father should next go to a chiropractor doctor, that his problem was likely escalated by the unexpected stress he found himself in.
– “Wise men turn away anger” (Proverbs)
– “A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control” (Proverbs 29:11).
This reminds some really bad, manipulative persons too easily get angry when things do not go their way, when they cannot get others to do what they wants, cops and bad spouses, in-laws, outlaws  especially.
It is always still important that you find a safe and effective way to release anger to release the tension one is feeling of built up anger inside. Mediation on God and the Bible  is a good way.  You should also seek out professional help that can teach you how to understand why you feel that way, and give you steps to see and understand the causes of your anger.
 
 
Now if you are a true Christian serving the Lord you can still expect for God to do for you what the doctors cannot, I do and I have many times experienced great postive  changes next.

Love your enemy… but also try to know your enemy

and those who do not put their money into their pockets they declared  WAR against them..

(Micah 3:5 KJV)  Thus saith the LORD concerning the prophets that make my people err, that bite with their teeth, and cry, Peace; and he that putteth not into their mouths, they even prepare war against him.

(Mat 10:36 KJV)  And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household.

One of the greatest Christian author’s in the world, Author of Pilgrim’s Progress, the english book second to the Bible its seems, John Bunyan the preacher,   his own wife did not go along with him.. or for certainty the Pilgrim’s own wife he wrote about..

(Prov 22:6 KJV)  Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it

As a mature , honest, decent adult senior, I like to speak from my real insights, experiences and not as a pretender on the net.
 
 People with low self-esteem tend to live in a closed system that is hard to break. Because they have difficulty admitting negatives, either about themselves or their behavior, it is hard to reach them. It is especially difficult for someone with low self-esteem who is defensive or in denial to admit that they are afraid.  http://www.getnewvisions.com/se/03crse_symptoms.html

Now why is it some persons do like to control slander others, gossip about them, and  try to dominate, bully, bash or influence others?

Is  it really just cause they have a poor self image, and as a result crave attention upon, for themselves or what? Or do  they feel that bashing others makes themselves feel temporally better, but that quickly dissipates anyway  and they have to do so more bashing?

Or is just cause they  do not know any better and perform  all these immoral acts ? They come from real troubled homes, bad upbringing and they are searching for love, acceptance  the wrong way.. even because their parents now have done a really bad job in bringing them up, in raising them properly to face life, hold a job, hold a marriage etc?

At what point are do they no longer have an excuse, have reached an age of personal  accountably for their own actions and cannot any longer blame others, their parents, past  teachers, administrators, society in general  and now they have  to be personally fully accountable rather for their actions?

 IT IS NOW MORE  RARE BUT I DO ALSO NOW STILL GET BULLIED BY RELIGIOUS BULLIES, ABUSERS TOO..  
 
The WRONGFULLY STILL Unrepentant  bully’s problem is that he or she is one of those bad persons  who only feels truly alive when voicing hostility and contempt for his “enemies.” Without that, he or she starts gasping for air. It’s his nature.. self-destructive” ..  clearly these immoral  Bully, Basher of others, Abusers of others has a disappointed, deflated ego, negative self worth,  most likely related to past unresolved guilt, as a result  of  that   the bully, he or she, tries falsely to   build  their ego up by bashing, hating others, by being an antagonists against  his proclaimed enemies, which too often also  is most people , for  he or she no longer trust anyone, and Abusers this is a common very typical approach, fact in the character build up of Bullies, Bashers, but their approach is futile, the subsequent feeling of self worth dissipates too quickly, are actually replaced by guilt,  and his ego, self worth likely needs to be recharged with new hate.. and is replaced with more and larger hatred of the others.  I have seen this type of wrong behavior not just in bad managers, bad politicians, bad persons, but  in alcoholics, and most often in Albertan rednecks ,but also  in religious   fundamentals evangelicals who promote hated towards Pentecostal Christians as well, and  now as well as the crooked pastor wrongfully  fighting for control over others. Public exposure and prosecution of these bad persons here too services everyone’s best interest.

SEE ALSO

http://pbulow.tripod.com/  
http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/07/21/hidden-agendas

https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/07/21/the-pretender-imposter-wolf-in-sheep-clothing/   
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/07/07/control-freaks/   
http://www.socyberty.com/Advice/Are-You-a-Control-Freak.101788   
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/07/24/wrongful-accusations    
http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/verbal-abuse-is-always-unacceptable-too/  
https://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/08/16/healing-todd-bentley-florda-lakeland-revival/  
http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/12/more-about-control-freaks/
http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/15/deliberate-unforgiveness /

http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/19/adultery/