Abused! How much abuse is acceptable? None!

 Recently in a five month period I had almost daily encounter with geriatric hospitals and old age homes and I was shocked NOW OFTEN to find out that there were poor, pretentious, inadequate hospitals and bad old age homes, in contrast with the well managed, kind, decent, effective, good  hospitals and good old age homes, and I started to wonder why there was such a glaring, vast difference.. and of course “money the root of all evil” had come into the pictures, for those managers who were more concerned about making more money, getting a raise, PROMOTION, advancement,  now also  too readily allowed the patients to be wrongfully abused!   http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/07/07/control-freaks

If you are being abused do not hesitate ASAP to call the police, human rights courts, news media.

For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Tim 6:10 KJV) 

Most of us will retire and many of us will find ourselves eventually in an old age home, a hospital for seniors, and we will unavoidably encounter real abuses. Get ready for it, deal with it now before it will be too late! Why and how do the abuse of any seniors for example start? Here is the reality, any unrestrained abuses tends to escalate, verbal abuses always also tend to lead to real  unacceptable physical abuses.

A TOO TYPICAL  INEXPERIENCED, UNQUALIFIED  CONVALESCENT HOME WORKER  GIVES A COMMAND  IN A LOUD VOICE TO A PATIENT.  THE PATIENT IN THE CONVALESCENT HOME SCREAMS OUT NEXT “DO NOT GIVE ME ORDERS, I LIVE IN CANADA I DO NOT HAVE TO TAKE ORDERS FROM ANYONE”. VERY SHORTLY THE EPISODE ESCALATES TO A SCREAMING MATCH BETWEEN THE 2 PERSONS, WITH THE PATIENT NEXT ALSO SAYING “I HATE YOU, I HATE THE WAY YOU MISTREAT ME”. NEXT THE SAME WORKER THREATENS EVEN PHYSICAL RESTRAINTS, REAL PHYSICAL HARM TO THE PATIENT IN RESPONSE.

INSTEAD OF SAYING ORIGINALLY TO THE PATIENT, “HONEY DEAR WILL YOU COME FOR LUNCH NOW?”

The uncompassionate, unloving worker had wrongfully ordered the patients and had said “Go to lunch, you have to go to lunch now!”

  And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing. (1 Cor 13:3 KJV)

And who are these abusers? why is is that they so readily abuse others now too? They tend to be persons who have their own value system, and clearly also a lack of love for others, and a lack of love for their jobs now as well.

For he hath said, It profited a man nothing that he should delight himself with God.  (Job 34:9 KJV)

Sadly many people, likley 50 percent now, do  take a job not cause they love their work, so it is not surprising that they also do not have a love for others associated with the work now too, but they take the job basically for the money.. and we SADLY TOO OFTEN STILL DO encounter many Nurses, Doctors, hospital and old  age home workers now like this as well.

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2010/05/06/thenonconformer%e2%80%99s-canadian-blog/

Copy to the honourable Premier Jean Charest, Quebec

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2010/04/05/canadas-rapidly-increasing-aging-seniors/

In case you did not notice it I do not accept any physical, verbal, mental, human rights abuses by anyone of anyone and I rightfully do instead demand their full, open exposure and public prosecution now as well and  no matter who they are, Prime Minister, Premier, MP, MNA, MLA, MPP, Doctors, lawyers, cops, pastors, etc..

The Canadian Institute for Health Information released its report  finding 44 per cent of seniors in residential care have symptoms of depression. http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/cbc/100520/canada/science_depression_seniors   and if you had read my blogs  http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/ on the actual  care of seniors in Quebec this year  I had said the same thing even that depression counseling is not being provided  in Hospitals or old age homes not even by the Quebec social services.

 

I personally in Montreal Quebec now  have the last 4 months dealt directly with the Quebec social service workers, in regard to even my elderly senior father and real workers in you cannot call them that at all, try useless functionaries, fraud artists, incompetents, pretenders.. Since I clearly, openly do not write to win political or any popularity support I know you will also  find some shocking truths in my expose of Canadian Life in reality even how the immoral, cheap  Quebec government wrongfully  allows elderly patients to die by not force feeding them or providing them any depression counseling.

 

Matt 32:29 You shall love your neighbour as yourself.. and that means you will do him no harm now too. 

 

 Abused. One of my most often written about subject on the net.. even whether it is verbal, mental, physical abuses now too.. ironically some of the people claiming that someone else has been abusing them has been the major abuser themselves and that is why they are so conscious of the other persons supposedly abusing them.. another case of one’s need in dealing with the beam in one’s eye over the toothpick in the other persons eye.. often notice the opposition political party accusing the governing party of abuse when they now also have done the same thing ? One of the thing that has caught me by surprised were the proposed solutions for the abuse.. some were really unacceptable, such as accepting the abusers and merely forgiving them when God himself does not.. anyone doubt this, look at God’s Punishment of the Apostle Paul specially for his past abuse of the Christians now too. I know from observing others that one’s abusing a Christian can lead to one’s early death. I have found the best way not to get abused anymore is to rightfully not to associate with the abuser anymore, after exposing their abuse to them and others, till they really do repent of it, and a clearly Biblical approach according to the Bible  Book of Corinthians now too. They cannot hit you, abuse you if you are not there. As simple as that

 

Did you know that sibling rivalry, abuse is one of the most common forms of family violence? Siblings will use physical violence because they have learned it from their parents, a bad mother or a bad father,  or other adults. In fact, one study found that 76% of the children who were repeatedly abused by their parents also abused their siblings.. and their spouse next too
 
Everyone  needs to set boundaries on what is acceptable behavior. No verbal abuses, no bullying, no lying, no foul languages, no hitting or other violence should be allowed. Another step parents can take to prevent abuse between siblings is to model their own respectful behavior in your family. Children learn how to interact with others by observing them.

http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/12/26/young-offenders/

 

Hate and Verbal abuse unrestrained often next do lead to physical abuse. Hate, Verbal or physical  abuse is always unacceptable too. So are the Bullies now too … I have learned a long time ago that public exposure and prosecution of the abusers serves everyone’s best interests, http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/07/21/hidden-agendas/

 

http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/verbal-abuse-is-always-unacceptable-too/

agendas/http://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/18/she-was-selfish-self-absorbed-self-centered/

http://postedat.wordpress.com/2010/02/08/the-still-unrepentant-wicked-persons/

http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/verbal-abuse-is-always-unacceptable-too/

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